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still worried

i had unprotected sex with a woman on march 31st 2011

2 days after i got a lesion on the skin of my penis a blackish lesion which went alone after 2-3 days

the woman had told me she has seen a number of men in the past

i did blood tests for std'd 2 week later and all returned negative

on 21st may i got diarrhea and a day later a fever and a day after that a big sinus infection and i never ever suffered from sinus problems.   a week after i got a sore throat but kept living my life and going to work
i was feeling tingling in my body , night sweats and funny sensations all over
in the meantime my life was extremely stressful as my wife was suspecting things were going on

on 21st june i again got diarrhea and a day later again fever and again ear pressure and facial muscle discomfort
now on 28th july i got diarrhea again BUT aal the sinus issues hve suddenly cleared but have a cough and feel like sneezing all the time

all in all i tested negative for hiv, hepatitis, chlamydia and gonorrhea 5 times including the latest blood test at 16 weeks

my wife is now also feeling very tired and some lower abdominal pains

what i would like to add also is that i am constantly feeling groin discomfort and my wife had 2 glands in her neck that are swollen and tender to touch

i was a very athletic and strong person till 3 months ago but since all this started ive stopped all physical activity

ive been for a massage and my therapist told me that my liver is slightly larger than usual but took liver and glandular fever blood tests that all came negative

4 months later i was feeling slight joint pains .. otherwise all is ok ... a little worry are 2 painless hardly visible sores on my penis ... which i keep examining all the time

8 months after i was diagnosed with a UTI and enterobater bacteria from a little discharge i got .. i retested for all stds and again all negative

in march this year .. a year after exposure im still not feeling 100% .. still get occasional joint pains,  i also got a burning sensation whilst urinating after training,  redness in the scrotum, rumbling tummy and general tiredness in the evening

am worried and dont know what else to do



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101028 tn?1419603004
as well as symptoms of many other things.

your guilt is the issue, not the odds that you have a std that wasn't detected on all the tests you had done and now you've given it to your wife.

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sorry but arent regular low back pain, neck stiffness and headaches symptoms of an std ?
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Blood test is pointless in trying to link up to a STD unless it is a specific STD blood test. Wife symptoms have nothing to do with a STD, don't know where you read that but it's garbage.
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my wife is having lower back pain and shoulder and neck stiffness
weve been undergoing we anxious and stressful times but i also read that these could be symptoms of an std

ive recently done a full blood test (not for std) and all the readings including blood count etc etc are well within range.   does this indicate that im ok ?  would the white blood cells be elevated in case of an std.

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Anything is possible, but not likely.
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could there be false negative results ?
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101028 tn?1419603004
honestly there's nothing else to add from when you last posted.  not everything is a std.

grace
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