Thanks everyone for the replies. so here it goes.
Okay, about 3 months ago i went to a party and a me and a guy where hitting it off. we didnt do sex, all we did was really J/O and he RIM me. now how safe was this act. if he rim me can i get an STD? i guess im just worry to get tested and find out the results. from that foolish night. But hope someone can lower my fear and help me. im not having no symptoms, just recent i been having some side pain on my right side. Thanks