what are your thoughts?

[detpiston7788]

I am a straight 28 year old male that hasnt "gotten any" in ages.. I was last tested in april for hiv and other stds, came back ok... And i promised to never have sex again until im in a realiontship.. Well now,,, that may change,lol.  I know this woman who is an escort, and shes is hot as hell! I really want to have sex with her! But.. im scared at the same time to catch something... I know escorts supply condoms, i used to go to alot of them before, and amazingly enough, im negative for stds.. (i dunno how) But for some reason, im kinda scared.. What do you think i should do?  Not do anything and better safe than sorry?  Or trust the ole condom and look at it as... U only live once...  What are ur thoughts on condoms? Has anyone else here had multiple partners and negative for stds?

[gracefromHHP]

To me, ask yourself why you swore never to have sex again until you are in a relationship and suddenly now you've changed your mind.  Look at the underlying issues here, not just assess your risk.  If it's just about being able to say that you banged this hot chick, perhaps it's just not worth it?

Don't have game?  Trust me, women don't want "game" , we want honest and dependable men who aren't selfish and complement us and know who they are and what they want.  You just haven't found the right woman yet my dear!

grace

[mjbrown]

Yes. if used properly, condoms will prevent STDs. Just be sure to use them during the whole process (oral too). Also, you should ask the woman her HIV/STD status. Most people will not lie about this when asked directly.

Have fun and be safe!

[detpiston7788]

Well... yea ur right, getting sex for free beats paying for it... But... I dont have "game" with women,lol..  And im sure im not the only guy thats had sex with escorts,haha.  So condoms do work really?

[Vance2335]

To start if you use a condom correctly and it does not fail then condoms work. You have a low risk for HSV, HPV and syphilis because they are require skin to skin contact.

I have had a lot of partners and never got a STD. My partners were for the most part college women or younger women...mid 20's.

My personal opinion is do not pay for sex. You can get sex for free why pay for it? Like I said that is my personal opinion.