The sexual episode you describe was safe and almost certainly could not have been a source of HIV. You have had multiple negative HIV tests. The tests you have had aree reliable. You don't have HIV.
It sounds to me like your family has every right to be fed up with you. Your obsession with HIV sounds quite irrrational. If you can't shake your unreasoned fear about HIV infection, ask your health care provider about the possible need for referral to a mental health professional. I suggest it out of compassion, not criticism.
Good luck-- HHH, MD
You are over worrying..First, your risk was very very low since you used latex condom and the condom didn't break. Second, the chances of getting HIV from a one time encounter is low, and you don't even know if she had HIV to begin with. Third, you tested twice and it came back NEGATIVE. The tests were performed properly and you don't have to worry.
Stop thinking of HIV and move on with your life..You're fine.
Do you think the woman at the clinic performed the test wrong the second time because she didn't want to get in trouble if it came back positive? The first time I took it she told me it didnt matter if I swabbed my cheeks. She also kept telling me that if I need to to get a blood test. Why would she say that? Because I kept calling her? I keep hearing if the test was not done properly it would have come back inconclusive.
No I don't think so. I'm sure she's done the tests many times and she's qualified to do that. Your fears seem to be irrational. Don't exhaust yourself with all the weird scenarios and move on to better things..Accept the fact that your negative and good luck to you..
Thanks for your reply doctor. Do you think I should get a blood test and do you think the Oraquick oral tests were administered correctly?
The very fact you feel a need to ask this additional question reinforces the closing comment in my initial reply. Your concerns about HIV risk and test reliability are irrational. You didn't need testing to begin with, and you certainly don't need any more testing. This is my last reply on this thread.
HHH, MD