My girlfriend found out she has herpes. She assumed she got it from me because she had a breakout less than 2 weeks after we had unprotected sex for the first time. Out first time was the beginning of SEPTEMBER '05. She didn't realize she had herpes until her second breakout this JANUARY '06. She had never had these symptoms before so it was easy for her to point the finger at me. Trying to make things better I accepted the blame..... But some new informatino has arose that says otherwise, because I recently got tested.
But first, here is some further information on each of our backgrounds:
For me, I had one other partner (to my knowledge she had oral sex with 2 other guys), however she said she tested a few times for stds, and nothing ever came up. So as far as I know she didn't/ doesn't have herpes( however, this doesn't mean she couldn't have cheated on me though and lied to me) Now the last time that my x-partner and I had sex ( this was my last sexual encounter of any kind up until my current girlfriend ) was February of 2005. So this was OVER 1 YEAR AGO, however I was never tested for herpes until recently.
For my current Girlfriend, she had 2 pervious partners. Her first was about 3 years ago, they had sex no more than 4 times and it was protected sex the whole way ( no known stds ). Her next partner was a one time deal, which was UNPROTECTED and also over a year ago ( however, no known stds ). And SUPPOSIDLY this was her last sexual encounter up until myself, but she was never tested for herpes until recently.
I got tested this past week, March 15th, 2006. I tested negative for IgG, Hsv-1, and Hsv-2. However, I did test positive for IgM.. Now, to my understanding, when your test results appear like this, it means that you have been recently infected. Is this true?
Now I have never had the herpes symptoms. My girlfriend now has them, ever since we've been sexual active. Now I know she got tested, I do NOT KNOW exactly what she tested on each test, all I know is that her doctor told her SHE HAS HERPES.
I'm working on finding out her test exact test results, but currently we are fighting because of the information I found out.
My doctor told me that, since I've never had symptoms and that I've only tested positive for IgM (knowing that my last sexual encounter with my pervious partner was over 1 year ago) that there is no way that I could have given my girlfrind herpes, HE EVEN SAID HE WOULD PUT HIS REPUATATION AS A PHYSICIAN ON THIS.
Now those are some bold words to say, and I wanted a second opinion to understand the facts, and I'm wanting to get to the bottom of things, my girlfriend is fighting me on me getting her exact results and our doctors talking.
So is there a chance that I gave herpes to her? Or did she give herpes to me?