Doctor, recently, maybe 4 hours after sex, I had what appears to be an inflamed hair follicle with another, less inflamed one maybe .5" from it on the back of the shaft of the penis, where I have some hairs. It looks like a red pimple, cone shaped I suppose. There is a hair sticking out of the center, you can see the "bulb" at the center of this inflammation when the hair is pulled on both. I also had one very similar appear on my inside leg the night before, where my scrotum would have been in contact. The area on the penis is also where the scrotum would have contact at certain times. I have bad jock itch at the moment and am wondering if it's all related.
Just to be clear, herpes never presents as a random inflamed hair follicle, correct?
I also was pleased to find out that my partner's last sexual partner (2.5 months ago as mentioned) was tested clear, so her last "unknown" was over 4 months ago, and she always used a condom with anyone of unknown status. So I'm pretty sure she's near 100% in the clear, but I still worry when I see these things.
Thank you for answering all my questions. This is a great service you provide.
Yes, you can be confident your partner doen't have HSV-2.
HHH, MD
Well, the derm just gave me some anti-bacterial foam for the pimples and said if it got better not to be concerned. They cleared up after a couple days with the foam.
I'm sorry for the addendums, but it should be noted that the derm results refers to the first visit in which he swabbed the first red area I noticed. Just wanted to make sure I was clear on that.
Also (last question and I will go my merry way), given her multiple negative IgM results and negative HSV2 finger ***** test approx. 2.5 months after last sexual partner, would you say it's pretty safe to assume she's clear?
Hmm, the end was cut off. Meant to say "do you agree with his diagnosis?"
I should also mention none of these spots ever really caused any itching or pain. Never erupted or became "open". I guess the first rash looked a little "raw" after contact (like in some spots the first layer of skin eroded), but again that was only after rough contact. The whiteheads I popped were a bit sore for a day or two, but that's expected.
Since you have seen a dermatologist who doesn't think you have herpes, was confident you don't have herpes, and you tested positive for the most common cause of balanitis, that is what I believe you have. Your symptoms don't especially sound like herpes but are entirely consistent with nonspecific or fungal balantitis. You and your partner don't need any further testing for herpes. Follow your dermatologist's advice about treatment and follow up. (The white heads almost certainly are folliculitis or garden variety pimples. Your dermatologist also is the best source for further advice about that problem.)
Good luck-- HHH, MD