Thanks for your kind comments. Take care.
Dear HHH,
Thank you so much for your response - I feel a great deal better. I agree that it is definitely guilt over my behaviour that is getting to me at this stage. I will work on that one!
Thanks again - this forum is so important and so greatly appreciated.
The gonorrhea and chlamydia probably were nucleic acid amplification tests (NAAT, i.e. PCR or related technology). My guess is that the trich test was a culture. I saw these comments before I replied above. They don't change my opinion or advice.
Welcome to the forum. Bottom line: you can be 100% you have neither chlamydia, gonorrhea, nor trichomonas and could not have transmitted either of them to your boyfriend.
First, although it is certainly possible you were exposed to one of these infections, it isn't very likely. Even the most common STDs are present in only a few percent of sexually active persons at any one time. Second, even if he had an infection, the chance of transmission for any single unproteced exposure is not certain -- probably around 50%. Third, the tests are very accurate; your negative tests were reliable; 5-6 days after exposure is plenty of time for accurate results. Finally, the treatments you received are highly reliable against gonorrhea and chlamydia. If despite all odds you nevertheless had been infected, within 1-2 days of taking the drugs you were no longer infectious for your partner.
Could any one of those factors gone the wrong way? Sure. But the odds of all four going the wrong way (partner infected, you caught it, tests missed it, AND the treatment didn't work) are infinitessimal -- zero for all practical purposes. You don't need further testing and need not worry about infecting your partner.
I agree with your own self-assessment -- that the main problem here is your guilt over your behavior. But don't beat yourself over the head with it -- and you can put aside the STD aspects. However, I have a single word for you in the event you find yourself similarly tempted in the future: Condom!
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
Sorry - another note: I'm not certain the tests were PCR they may have been a culture?
Apologies - in my post above I wrote that I was concerned (under (a)) that the test results were false positives as it was too early to test - i mean I am concerned that they are false NEGATIVES as it was too early to test.
Thanks