DR. HHH I need your help!

[tiredofworry1]

First off, thank you, you always know how to put things and how to put a squash to all the non-sense about stds on the internet
I need your help
Monday I meet someone on a website for adults and we started chatting and she told me she was looking to make some extra  in exchange for sexual services, im in a commited relationship and im worried sick! i meet her and she gave me protected oral and then we had protected viginal sex that lasted a few mins i was nervous the condom coverd my penis and all fluid was intact after the sex my boxershorts coverd the rest
- what is the likely hood i contract herpes or anyother Std?
- everything we did including oral was protected
my penis is sore today and kinda hot feeling and itchy now im freaking out! i dont want to have sex with my girlfriend until im sure what do you think doc!
thanks in advance

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Gland to help. Take care.  EWH

[tiredofworry1]

Dr hook,

Thank you, i respect  you and Dr HHH very much!!  your answer really did help and you me at alot of ease! thanks again

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to our Forum.  As you know, Dr. Handsfield and I share the forum.  You got me.  FYI, the reason we share the forum is because we have worked together for nearly 30 years and while our verbiage styles vary, we have never disagreed on management strategies or advice to clients.

The exposures you describe, condom protect oral and vaginal sex are safe sex which do not put you at risk for any STD.  It has only been two days since your exposure. Because of this, you can be confident that the soreness and itch that you are experiencing are not due to an STD.  The soreness may related to the friction encountered during your exposure, in particular due to the presence of your boxer shorts.  As for the itch, itching is the most common sign of anxiety following a sexual encounter that someone is not sure they should have had. i suspect this is the explanation for that problem.

Following a condom protected exposure of the sort you describe there is no reason for concern, nor is there any medical reason for testing.  

I hope my comment provides you with some peace of mind.  EWH

[tiredofworry1]

also, the girl said she is clean i asked her,and she has a child and told me she wouldnt risk that