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Growing concern over me giving oral to another man

So,  it has been about 4 days since I have given unprotected oral sex to someone, which he did ejaculate in my mouth, which I went ahead and spit out. So, I've still have this soreness in my throat, and it seems irritated. I'm just concerned that I contracted gono.

I have a partner, and I rely don't want to pass it to him. So I've been very careful in not doing anything sexual with my mouth.  I have a few questions

1. Am I at a serious risk of gono or of any other type of std?

2. Am I able to kiss my partner without fear of spreading

3. Am I stressing out too much

4. Should I get tested?
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1- You had risk for some STD's, like gonorrhea and syphilis, although low risk. Oral sex is not the best way to got a STD
2- Kissing is not a risk for STD's
3- Probably yes
4- It's not a bad idea, not because I think you have something but you are in a relationship and it's better to be safe than sorry. You can get a test for gonorrhea right now and for syphilis 6 weeks after the encounter. Nevertheles if you don't develope a sore on your mouth 2-3 weeks after the encounter you could eliminte syphilis, although it would be better to get tested.
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No, i'm not as anxious..=) but. I completely understand. Thank you for your time, i'm actually going to get tested for gono and chlamydia today.

thank you.
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Yes, you would have notice it as a chancre is quite obvious (google it and you will find some pictures)
You're right, you need to have direct contact with the chancre to get infected but I don't want to mislead you. Syphilis is a rare disease and it's rare to get infected by oral sex. Although it's true that among homosexual men syphilis is more common than in heterosexual people, it is rare anyway. I wouldn't like you to be anxious because of my posts.
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Now, with syphilis, would I notice if he had any lesions or a chancre? From what I read, I would need to come into direct contact with it.
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