How long ago was the lubiderm incident? When can you get tested? That is the only way to ease your mind.
And on the "asian massage prostitute", I do not agree they are more likely to have HIV. I have been to them and they are very conscience of safe sex. Have you ever heard any where "massage parlor found to be link to HIV in the city" news stories? Forget law enforcement, the health department work shut them down in no time flat. Much like the bath houses in San Fran 25 years ago. I have never had massage parlor girl not insist to use a condom. This was 5 years ago, I have since managed to stay away from them. The reason I have been on here is I "relapesed" in May and almost killed myself with guilt. I had every smptom of every std...I tested negative for all of them and now I am back on track and taking even more measures to stay "clean".
I hope you can relax a bit. But if you are like me, only a negative test will clear your head.
Do you have your original thread handy. I would be interested in hearing about the event and subsequent anxiety and symptoms. You can just tell me how to find it. I think this thread will probably be closed down at the end of the day for getting too long.
Let's just say that I keep praying that the masseuse actually had KY or Astroglid in a bottle of Lubriderm so as to incriminating evidence in the event that they get busted. I would be amazed if they actually used lotion as a lubricant, especially since lotion is not good for a woman (for hygenic reasons).
I'm at the end of Week #4. I'm thinking about going in for a PCR tomorrow ($399--ouch).
Sorry - I don't have it. But like the Dr. often points out, sear for "HIV Anxeity" in the forum.
I really am try to help you, but I gurantee no matter what you read and no matter how many people tell you you have no chnace of HIV, only a negative test will help. I just hope you aren't one of those that needs 10 tests out to 18 months and still thinks they have HIV.
You do not have HIV, get a test to ease your mind and move on. That is the only way for you to get past this.
Dear Doctor:
My thread had become uncontrollable (maybe you can lock it). But I was hoping (if you had time) an answer to this (which I wrote) but got lost in the shuffle:
Dear Dr:
I just wanted to clarify that one reason that I thought that lymph node swelling due to HIV ARS WAS PAINFUL was that in this Forum, on 07/07/2005, you responded to a similar question as follows, stating that the "nodes may be painful or not."
"The medical term is lymphadenopathy. If lymph nodes aren't swollen enough for you to notice without looking, they almost certainly aren't enlarged. When people get lymphadenopathy, the swelling goes on for weeks or months, it doesn't come and go; the nodes may be painful or not."
Respectfully,
WadeM
PS, I will just get my test. Only solution. But if I misread you, please let me know.
Thanks for pointing out the discrpancy; in that earlier reply I should have said "the nodes generally are not tender or painful, although mild tenderness may sometimes occur if the nodes swell up pretty quickly." A lymph node that enlarges quickly may be somewhat tender. But it rarely would be particularly sore to the touch.
As per my original response, when the chance of HIV is just about zero based on sexual lifestyle and exposure, then whatever happens afterward almost always is due to something other than HIV.
But you're on the right track: get tested. All this guesswork is only going to heighten your anxiety until you get your negative test result.
HHH, MD