Don't worry, you're OK. The only STD ever clearly documented to be transmitted to a woman by oral sex, to my knowledge, is herpes due to HSV-1. There is no documented case of HIV transmission. That doesn't prove it can't occur, but it means the risk is extremely low. The symptoms you describe do not sound like HIV infection (because of the runny nose, which--as you ask--is not part of the HIV symptom complex); and anyway it sounds like a common cold, which of course is infinitely more common than primary HIV infection. On top of that, 2 months is too long a delay for onset of symptoms. Finally, BV is an extremely common problem in women with or without HIV; it does not signify HIV.
You really needn't worry and do not need HIV testing, assuming you have no other risks. Even if the result were positive, it would be because you caught it somewhere else, not from the oral sex exposure you describe.
Good luck--- HHH, MD
no one has ever got HIV by performing oral sex...so you should not worry about gettin HIV...other then that..i do not know..doc would be able answer..but gettin HIV from this episode..your risk of getting it is zero