Chickenpox is pretty uncommon in adults, and most adults are quite sick--not just a touch of fever. But if the doc who examined you is highly experienced with the disease, the diganosis probably is accurate. Still, most knowledgeable providers would do lab tests to confirm the diagnosis.
Whatever you had, you can be sure it wasn't a herpes simplex virus (HSV) infection, either HSV-1 or HSV-2. On rare occasions, an initial HSV infection can disseminate, with widespread skin lesions. However, all such persons are extremely ill--much more so than with chickenpox, for example, generally sick enough to require hospitalization, sometimes life-threatening. And in most such persons, the earliest and most prominent symptoms would be oral (HSV-1) or genital (HSV-1 or -2). And since you had safe sex, the likelihood of catching herpes or any STD during the exposure you describe was very low.
If you remain concerned, see a health care provider and ask about blood testing to see if you are infected with HSV of either type. If positive, though, it won't necessarily mean the illness you describe was due to HSV. Half the population have HSV-1 and a quarter have HSV-2, mostly without symptoms.
Your dry throat doesn't suggest herpes, HIV, or any STD.
If you're concerned about HIV, why haven't you been tested?
Good luck-- HHH, MD
Dear Doctor,
Thank you for your quick response. Surprisingly, my doctor did not recommend any tests while I had the outbreak. I assumed it was chicken pox as well and let it at that.
As for HIV concerns, I did have myself tested after 6 weeks of my last encounter which came back as negative. I am getting this test done as a conclusive final test.
I shall request a blood test for chicken pox and herpes so I know for sure.
My wife also had the symptoms a few days after I did, but in a much milder form. Both of us had not had it as children. However, she did get herself vaccinated right after I was diagnosed. I do not know if that would have had any effect. Also, she delivered a baby 3 weeks ago. My question is, would the herpes have shown up when they did pap smears on her during the pregnancy?
Get tested as you wish, but if positive for any of those viruses (HSV-1, HSV-2, VZV/chickenpox), there still will be no way to know when you were infected.
Most obstetrictions do not routinely test pregnant women for herpes. Pap testing doesn't show it. The HSV blood test is needed.
HHH, MD