I know very little about HPV and my internet browsing has confused me ever more.
I dated a girl in college about 15 years ago. I saw her again, once, a few months ago. The extent of our sexual activity, in college and more recently, was deep kissing, masturbation (both ways -- I don't think I inserted my finger inside her, but it's possible), and perhaps some very, very, very brief oral (her on me, not to completion, although I can't imagine why that would matter, but what do I know?). There was no penile intercourse of any kind and, in fact, I doubt seriously that if I inserted my finger inside her it was more than for a few seconds.
Recently, she informed me that she had tested positive for HPV. She said nothing more about the type, strain, etc., but I know it is genital (as opposed to oral, if such a thing exists). She also said that based on the type she has, her doctor told her she likely contracted it upwards of 20 years ago.
On to the questions.
Question 1, could I have contracted HPV from her either then or more recently, given the exposures?
Question 2, my female significant other and I have unprotected sex (all kinds) and have for 20 years. Is she at risk, and if so, what type of risk? She gets routine, i.e., 6-month, pap smears and has never had anything abnormal come up.
Thanks.