Doctor,
You're a badass
Thank you.
Your test result proves you do not have HSV-1, and therefore that herpes is not the cause of the "irritation" you are experiencing. What in heaven's name makes you think that every little itch or irritation of the genital region has to be herpes? Every human being experiences such symptoms from time to time. You don't have herpes and do not need any further testing. Get over it.
Hello Doctor,
I went and got tested at 12 weeks past exposure and my tests cam back negative again. The crazy thing is that the day I got my test results back a slight irritation occurred. That morning I shaved my genital region and masturbated. I wore the same brand of underwear I wore when both previous irritations happened (tight fitting). I noticed later in the day that there was a slight itching on the underside of my penis. I looked at it and there was a small swollen area that itched (exactly like the previous irritation, just WAY smaller). I put some neosporin on it and a band aid at night and the next morning when I woke up the area was not swollen anymore, leaving just a small red area. It then got dry and flaky, and disappeared. So the irritation was gone within two days. And now thinking about it, I do remember shaving my genitals prior to the first irritation I described to you. There was no ulcers, or crust like a deep scab. Again would herpes disappear this fast?
So my first irritation was 5 weeks after possible exposure, with symptoms of swelling that went away after a day, leaving only a red area on my penis. A week later, the same area became swollen because I feel that I applied a lotion that had menthol in it. Then 6 weeks later, the irritation I described to you. Tests done 5, 8 and 12 weeks after possible exposure.
For the love of god, can I put this to rest or should I go get further testing? The stress is slowly killing me.
Repeat testing is up to you. In my opinion, there is under 1 chance in 1,000 that you were infected and that a repeat test would be positive. Most people would live with those odds without additional testing; certainly if I were in your situation, I wouldn't do it. But I'm not you; only you can decide whether you're sufficiently reassured that you don't need an additional test.
Doctor,
Do you think it is necessary for me to go get tested again at 12 weeks? With this test coming back negative at 8 weeks, and my symptoms not matching that of herpes, is it necessary or can I put this behind me?
Thank you!
You're welcome. That's why we're here; glad to help.
Doctor,
I just got another blood test on Tuesday. 8 weeks after possible exposure. Both tests came back negative. I am now confident I do not have HSV. Your words have kept me calm.
Thank you so much for your guidance and help. Your services are a God send.
Thank you!
Welcome to the STD forum. I reviewed Terri's responses to the same questions on the herpes forum. I agree with her reassurance that herpes is an unlikely cause of your symptoms. In fact, she might not have gone far enough: in my view herpes is even less likely than Terri seemed to think.
Before I get to your specific questions, I think you are overreacting to the possibility of genital herpes due to HSV-1, as reflected by your username and the opening line "I am terrified". If one has to get genital herpes, HSV-1 is the preferred type. Recurrent outbreaks are infrequent in most people and sexual transmission to partners probably is uncommon. It's a very different scenario than with HSV-2. Try entering "genital HSV-1" into this forum's search window; over 1,400 threads will come up, and most of what you find should be quite reassuring.
Also, oral to genital HSV-1 transmission is unlikely from any single contact, even with a partner with positive blood test for HSV-1. If your partner did not have an overt oral herpes outbreak (cold sore) at the time of exposure, it is very unlikely you were infected. And as discussed below, the time frame isn't right. I think you overreacted by asking your partner to be tested in this circumstance. I hope you were diplomatic about it; if not, you owe her a nice dinner and flowers.
1) Your description doesn't sound much like herpes, in particular no blisters or sores. I can't comment on other possibilities, allergy or something else. Most of the innumerable causes of skin rash anywhere on the body sometimes can affect the genitals: eczema, psoriasis, allergic dermatitis, fungal infections, etc, etc.
2) 5 weeks is too long. Initial herpes generally shows up 3-5 days aftrer exposure and probably never more than 2-3 weeks.
3) For HSV-2, about 80% of newly infected persons have positive results by 6 weeks. It's probably about the same for HSV-1, but hasn't been studied as carefully. I recommend waiting until 12 weeks for further testing, at which time testing will be around 90% reliable.
4) I agree herpes would not behave in the way you describe.
My advice is to see a health care provider, preferably a dermatologist, to learn the real cause of your penile rash. While it isn't possible to give you 100% assurance about herpes, it seems quite unlikely.
Regards-- HHH, MD