Any risk

[daveretene]

Hi

I visted an escort today for an erotic massage. She started with some deep tissue massage of back arms legs etc. She was straddling my back in just her G string. She massged my *** breifly at times. She performed some sliding on my body, moving her body on mine as I lay face down. When she turned me over she performed masturbation on me to completion. While masturbating me she 'played' with my anus, this lasted maybe 2-3 minutes max. She did not penetrate my anus I think.

Am I right in assuming im not at high risk of any stds??

Is there any risk with her having plaed with my anus?

Is there any risk of crabs from body to body contact.....even though she never removed her underwear.?

Thanks

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Yes you can.  EWH

[daveretene]

Thanks doc. So I cud safely carry on unprotected relations with my wife?

[Edward W Hook, MD]

No, penetration of your anus by her finger or firmer body contact is still no risk.  No change in my assessment.  EWH

[daveretene]

Thanks Doc.

If there penetration of the anus with her finger would this change your prognosis.

The rubbing with her body was particularly hard. Is this an added risk?

Also if she had massaged others shortly before, does this heighten risk?

thanks

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to the Forum.  Let me congratulate you on your commitment to safe sex, it will work for you.  Your contact is classified as masturbation and frottage (the rubbing).  Although there may be some tiny THEORETICAL risk for acquiring the STDS transmitted through direct contact (herpes, syphilis, HPV) from non-penetrative sexual activity of the sort you describe, even the theoretical risk is very, very low and neither Dr. Handsfield nor I have seen such cases.  As for the STDs transmitted through penetrative sexual contact (chlamydia, gonorrhea, NGU, trich), there is no risk at all.

As for your specific questions:
1.  Am I right in assuming im not at high risk of any stds??
Correct.

2.  Is there any risk with her having plaed with my anus?
No this is masturbation as well and a no risk activity.

3.  Is there any risk of crabs from body to body contact.....even though she never removed her underwear.?
Crabs are actually more often acquired from dirty sheets and bed clothes than from other people and in many instances are not transmitted sexually.  The risk of getting crabs from this sort of activity is immeasurably small.  I would not worry,

I hope my comments are helpful.  EWH