That is exactly one of the reasons you should not have been tested for HSV-2. Oral HSV-2 is very rare and in 30+ years in the STD business, I have never seen or even heard of a case of genital HSV-2 acquired by oral sex. It doesn't happen.
Welcome to the STD forum.
Apparently you decided not to follow the advice to read the prominent message at the top of the forum: Disclaimer -- Please Read Before Posting; or to follow its advice to look for similar questions. If you had used the search link and entered "herpes diagnosis" or "HSV IgM" you would have found hundreds of threads on it. Here is one of them:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Confusiion-over-other-IgM-Herpes-posts/show/248394
The bottom line is that IgM HSV testing is useless and false positive results are common. That's what you have. You don't have HSV-2. (And you could not have caught it from the fleeting exposure you describe; herpes is actually pretty hard to transmit and simply "brushing" a partner's genital area is no risk. You're a good example of someone who really should not have been tested for HSV to begin with. Don't have any more tests. You don't have it.
Good luck-- HHH, MD
It is possible, but if it happens, it is rare and I explained why. But that is not the only reason I believe you do not have it. You have atypical symptoms AND a negative test for HSV-2 after a time that most people have positive results AND a highly atypical potential route of exposure. The chance that all those atypicalities would occur in a single person probably is on the same order as being hit by lightning. (Actually, a lot less. The lifetime risk of death by lighthing, for residents of the US, is around 1 in 17,000 according to the National Safety Council. I would rate your chance of having HSV-2 from the oral sex event as far lower than that.)
That will be all for this thread. Please accept the reassurance that you don't have HSV-2 and go on with your life.
So there is literally NO risk of acquiring hsv2 from receiving oral sex? That just doesn't seem right? There is NO possibility that this could have occurred?
If she had genital herpes orally (hsv2 in her mouth) couldn't i have contracted genital herpes from her mouth? And yes i read the posts but was still confused, i am sorry and don't mean to be asking questions that have already been answered.
these were both genital herpes test results type 2... I know that i have had oral herpes type 1 already... i just do not want to contract genital herpes type 2... that is my worry from these exposures almost 12 weeks ago to clarify...
thank you