I saw this before I replied above. I have nothing more to say, except get real, mellow out, believe the science, and stop worrying about this.
Sorry I forgot to state that the symptoms I've had over the last 5 and a half weeks have been overlapping. Some together some not, it's all been off and on for 5 and a half weeks.
the anxiety has killed me over the last couple weeks, I haven't slept right since.
Unfortunately, you have selected the wrong forum; see the prominent message at the top of the forum home page and the "Disclaimer - Please Read" notice.
Two of the most common points made repeated in the HIV prevention forum is that HIV is rarely if ever transmitted by oral sex; and that symptoms are never useful clues about the possibility of a new HIV infection. In any case, your symptoms do not sound like those of a new HIV infection, despite what you think you might have learned on line. And even though your Unigold test was done early, the negative result offers additional reassurance you were not infected.
Bottom line: there is no chance you have HIV, but if you remain concerned, have another HIV test when 6-8 weeks have gone by; or a duo test (for both HIV antibody and p24 antigen) at any time. If you need more detail than this, you'll have to re-post your question on the HIV forum, and there will be no discussion on this one. But before you spend another posting fee, please spend some time reading that forum and using the search link to find detailed discussions in response to the identical questions you ask.
HHH, MD