I need help

[And1984]

I'm a 28 year old male that went for first time to a night club were i had vaginal sex with a csw. It was in berlin, germany.
The sequence is like this:
- She put on me a new condom (i saw when she opened it)
- we had vaginal intercourse for max 2 minutes.
- i finished inside the condom
- when i went out i saw at least half of the condom slipped up ( im not shured if that was when i was inside o when i got out)
- she took out the condom (apparently not broken)
- i spoke with her and the boss (an old women) and told that all the girls were clean.
- the girl told me that she was ok and that she didnt understand why i was like that. (Absoluetly freak).
- i touch for less than 5 seconds the condom after.

Its being 9 days days from that and im completely anxious, i have a wife and a daughter and im getting crazy.
I need to know if i had protected sex, if i am ok, what to do, etc... Im very hypochondriac also... Pls doctor help me giving me some answers because im very ignorant with the topic.
I dont want to have any disease beacuse of this stupid thing i did.

I need to understand why i'm in such low risk of getting herpes, or hiv, etc. Is it important the slip of the condom? I haven't notice symptoms of nothing else but anxiety.
I am really afraid, i need to know more information about low exposures or something...
Do you think i got something? I need odds, facts, i dont know.
Pls i apreciate as much information as possible.
Any help is welcome... Sorry for being so insistence and insecure... Ls understand me...

I wrote lot of questions and concerns, so i hope you can answer them all.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to this Forum.  I see that you have already had 14 interactions on the STD Community site and you have received good, accurate information.  This was a virtually no risk exposure. the chance that your sexual partner had HIV is very, very low.  In German brothels the CSWs are checked regularly for infection and typically use condoms, keeping them safe.  Further, your own brief sexual encounter was condom protected and condoms work well, even when they slip down to leave a portion of the penis uncovered during sex.   There is no risk for HIV, gonorrhea or chlamydia from this exposure.  As for the THEORETICAL possibility of diseases spread by direct contact such as syphilis or herpes, this concern is primarily theoretical - I have never seen a case of either disease spread because a condom slipped during sex.

There is also no need for concern that you might have gotten an STD from touching the condom or from vaginal fluid on the outside of the condom.

I hope my answer will be helpful.  From a medical perspective, there is no reason to be worried or, for that matter, to even test.  EWH

[Edward W Hook, MD]

I keep telling you there was no risk and you repeat your anxiety-driven questions.  Last answer NO RISK!!!  

There will be no further responses.  EWH

[And1984]

Doctor,
As i told you i dont remember the exact moment of the slip.
For example, when you eyaculate probably slips a little, then when you start going out, the same.
Is this important?
Do you think, based on what i told you, that i will be clean of all std and hiv?
Do you need another detail i can maybe give you?


Thank you

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Correct- no risk.  EWH

[And1984]

Thank ypu dr.
Another question.
Herpes and those like, its not risk when they are outside the vagina? I mean if touching the condom with fluid and that is not risky, means that if for example outside the vagina my "uncovered" part touches accidentally fluid is not also risky?

Thank you