Oh good grief. High risk because of her career??!!
Your partner could have had every one of those infections in its most transmissible forms -- but your exposures with her were not of a sort that could have result in you being infected, with the theoretical but in fact virtually zero chance of HSV-1 from kissing. You came here for reassurance and I gave it. Accept it or not, I don't care, but don't argue with it; this isn't a debate. Any more nonsense comments like this and the entire thread will be deleted.
Welcome to the forum.
For a variety of reasons, STDs are rare at your age and especially at your recent partner's age -- and it sounds like her risk is particularly low, given her sexual history. Further, you had entirely safe and protected sex except for the very brief penile-vagial contact. It is exceedingly unlikely you caught any STD. Personally, if I were in your situation, I would not be tested and I would continue unprotected sex with my wife with no worries of infecting her with anything.
I also recommend you stop examing yourself. Anxious people who keep peering at their genitals often begin to notice minor normal variations in the skin and worry about them unnecessarily. You should pledge to yourself not to look at your penis or genital area at all for the next month, except for the natural glance when you are using the bathroom.
I hope this helps. Best wishes-- HHH, MD
Thanks for all your help and just wanted to provide some feedback.
Although your advise should have been more than enough assurance I still felt compelled to be tested and I thougth it was important to share the results with the forum. The results are as follows:
14 days after exposure swab tested for chlamydia and gonorrhea = all negative
38 days after exposure urine test for chlamydia and gonorrhea = all negative, blood testing for syphilis, HSV1/2 IgG, HIV antibody and Hepatitis B&C = all negative
I know that I was earlier than the window period you suggest for some of these tests but wanted the additional reassurance before the holiday weekend. I don't believe I will be retested. Also no symptoms at nearly 7 weeks now.
Again thanks for the great service.
Nearly zero.
This is absolutely the last comment on this thread. This is not a psychological support service for people who will not or cannot accept scientific advice and reasoned reassurance.
Thanks for your continued reassurance. Sorry for being argumentative. I hate to keep asking for further reasurance and undertand my exposure was not the type for infection but can you tell me what the odds are of a 50 year old women having STD's.
Doctor, As much as I appreciate that the assurance you are trying to provide me that I do not have an STD I continue to worry.
I have since asked the women I was with why she was tested and she told me she worked in a hospital labratory for 20 years. She says HIV, Hepatitis and Hepres II were all negative.
Based upon this new information I think I had a high risk exposure based upon her career. I am thinking that HIV or Hepatitis is possible.
What are the chances I have HIV or Hepatitis from this exposure? I also continue to check for hepres 9 days post exposure.
Sorry for being a mental case.
Oral sex is safe sex -- not entirely without some risk, but with much lower STD transmission rates than vaginal or anal sex. STD risk from vaginal is not affected by menstruation.
Any time any human being kisses another, there is probably a theoretical risk of oral herpes. But that risk is no higher from your recent partner than with any other person. Oral herpes frequency is neither higher nor lower in people with other STDs. And herpes is virtually never transmitted to body parts like nipples.
So my opinion and advice stands as above. You should just put this event behind you and stop worrying about it.
Thanks for the quick response. You have a great site!
You said safe sex but the oral sex was unprotected?
Any issues with the brief vaginal being with her having her period?
Any chance of oral herpes from the kissing lips or nipples?