This is your 4th post since last July regarding your concerns. As you n o doubt know, we ask clients not to post more than2 questions on our sites within any 6 month period. You are well beyond this and your questions are really becoming both somewhat redundant and getting further and further along the “what if” trail. I will answer your questions directly but will not entertain further follow-up questions. It is past time for you to calm down and move forward without more concerns either about your pat GF, her risk to you, or your risk for yourself or your current GF.
While I applaud your concern for your GF, I hope that I can give you confidence that you need not be concerned. I will go straight to your questions with generic answers but will add that, having finished her HPV vaccine series, all of the comments regarding your GF’s risk I make above are estimates that are likely far too high:
1. RRP. The risk is tiny. RRP is primarily an infection acquired by infants at the time of delivery. While some adults do get laryngeal HPV-related papillomas, the relationship and risk as it related to oral sex is vanishingly rare. You estimate of less than 1 in 30,000 is likely in the right ball park and if anything, is lower.
2. Dr. Handsfield has recently addressed this questions very well. I will just paste a slightly modified version of his answer in here. "As far as oral sex, HPV, and oral cancer, just forget it. HPV is infrequently transmitted by oral sex. And despite the media attention about oral cancer, it's not a big deal. In the entire US, there are only about 6,000 cases of oral or throat cancer per year that are due to HPV-16, the main genital type that has been implicated; and those occur almost exclusively in people age 50 and over. And it is not at all certain that those people acquired their oral HPV through oral sex. (If one of the articles that concerns you is the one by Dr. Bernadine Healy, former head of the NIH, please disregard it. Her article has been heavily criticized by HPV experts for its non-objective, inflammatory slant.)
3. Yes, by all means go back to normal.
4. No!
5. Condoms work and greatly reduce the risk for HPV transmission. Condom use and her vaccination make this a non-concern.
EWH
Thank you and I promise that I will not post again after this. I should have mentioned, however, that the anal sex with condoms was before the vaccination. Does this make it anymore of a concern or is it still a non-concern? I promise this is the last thing I will ask and from here on out will take your advice to just move forward. Thank you again.
No change. End of discussion. EWH