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Interesting. This is the first I have heard of this test. From all I understand about oral HPV infections and oral cancer risks, I am highly skeptical that this is a useful screening test in healthy people. Until a lot more research is done, I would advise against its use, regardless of known or suspected oral-genital exposure to someone known to have HIV, including high risk types. Doing a quick search of the medical/scientific literature, at the moment I can find nothing about a) how well this test works in detecting HPV of the oral cavity, b) how frequently it is likely to be positive, c) whether it has any prevention value, whether positive or negative.
Here are two threads that summarize some of the issues around throat cancer, HPV, and oral sex:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/HPV-and-oral-cancer-risk-in-male/show/1181303
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/hpv-and-oral-cancer/show/758844
HPV related oral cancers remain rare, despite the media hype. Testing on the basis of known oral exposure to HPV would seem to make no sense. For every person who knows s/he had such an exposure, there probably are 10 times that many who were orally exposed to high risk HPV and never knew it. Therefore, screening reommendations probably would have to include everybody or nobody, and almostd certainly should not be based on exposure history. Until substantial more reserach is done, I would not know what to advise someone with a positive result, even for HPV-16 (which is the only sexually transmitted HPV type yet known to be associated with oral/throat cancer); nor would I confidently reassure anyone with a negative result that they aren't at risk.
As the threads make clear, there is a lot that isn't known about oral HPV and cancer, and current advice, use of screening tests, the role of HPV immunization in prevention, and other unknowns may become clear in the next few years. But for now, I do not think there is a role for oral HPV testing, at least not as a screening test in healthy persons.
As for your last question: anal HPV is not rare in heterosexual men or other persons who have never had anal sex. The exact explanations are unknown. I suppose it is theoretically possible that toilet splash could contribute, but I doubt it. For the most part, HPV probably has to be massaged into the tissues it infects; superficial contact probably is unlikely to transmit the virus. Therefore, my guess is that most anal infections are due to indirect sexual contact, auto-inoculation with one's own fingers, etc.
I hope this helps. Best wishes-- HHH, MD