Hi. Male, 41, monogamous for 12 years, except for this highly regretable incident. I have some questions regarding symtoms and risk. 10 1/2 weeks ago received short protected oral at strip club. No other exposure or touching. 2-3 days after exposure tenderness at meatus. Took Azitromax 1000 mg and later Cipro 1000 mg ( not tested). Also tried Valtrex 7 days with no change in symptoms Daily symptoms up til today, tender and slightly swollen meatus, utethral discomfort/ slight pain. No apparent blisters or ulcers, no discharge, normal lymphnodes. Last 4-6 weeks pinprick pain in legs, feet, nates and hands.Tested at 2 weeks: hiv, chlam, syf, mycopl, urine, hematology- all normal. At 4 weeks Gon and Hsv combo- negative. 6 weeks utethral smear- normal. 8 weeks: Hsv combo and hsv2, syf, hiv, urine, hematology- all normal. Urologist at 9 weeks, he stated normal visual inspection. Prostate: tender and swollen right lobe, possible prostatitis. treated with Cipro 500 mg x2. Symptoms more or less the same at day eight. I do know that my exposure was low risk, and that I am obsessing about this, but the continuing symptoms really do scare me. Could this still be hsv or should i trust the results? Could genital focused anxiety precipitate prostatitis or prostatitis like symptoms? Could prostatitis cause tender meatus and urethral Pain? plan to retest Hsv at 12 Weeks. Very afraid of transmitting something to my partner, is there still a risk? Sorry for the long post. I just need to get an expert opinion and try to get this off my mind and move on. Thanks