I'm sure that your life is not over becasue of this encounter. That said, I can help to point out what may or may not be going on. You received oral sex. Oral sex is an inefficient way to transmit STDs. Of the bacterial STDs only gonorrhea and nongonococcal urethritis (NGU) are transmitted through oral sex; chlamydia is not and without an obvious sore or lesion on your partner’s mouth, the chances of syphilis and herpes is likewise tiny. If you had gotten gonorrhea or NGU you might have developed symptoms of urethritis (penile infection) similar to the ones your describe. On the other hand, the symptoms you describe could also be a function of anxiety rather than infection. Even if your partner had an STD (any STD and it is likely she did not), most exposures do not lead to infection.
Lymph node swelling is non-specific and could represent infection or any number of other processes.
The avelox you took has activity against some gonorrhea and some cases of NGU bu tthe best way to rule this possibility in or out is to get examined by a trained health care professional and to have not only cultures done but also have either a swab or urine test perfromed to see if whilte blood cells are presetn. If they are, NGU or gonorrhea is more likely. The swab or urine tests tend to be more reliable in situations when you have not voided for at least one and preferrably two hours prior to the test. Given your symptoms, I would get tested before I could clear you for sex with your wife without risk of transmitting something to her. If the tests are negative. I would proceed without worry.
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Single dose therapy is standard for STDs
No, nothiing to be gained from herpes testing at this time. If you wonder why, please search this site under herpes or herpes diagnosis. EWH
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