Welcome to our Forum. I'll be happy to provide some perspective. There is no meaningful risk for STI from your receipt of condom protected oral sex. Thus, your only risk was from your brief performance of oral sex on her and that risk is very, very low. While surprising to some, the fact is that most commercial sex workers do not have STIs of any sort (bad for business) and have themselves checked for infections far more regularly than most people. In addition, cunnilingus is very low risk for infection even if she did happen to have an infection. IF she had HIV (and that is unlikely) your risk for infection is no greater than 1 in 10,000 sex acts and that estimate may well be too high. As for STIs such as gonorrhea or chlamydia, the risk for these is also quite low.
My advice is not to worry and that if you wish to seek testing the critical test is a throat swab for gonorrhea nd chlamydia. The other testing is up to you and not something I feel is crucial but I also understand that you may want to test to be sure.
I hope these comments are helpful. EWH
Thank you for the quick response - I already booked and paid for the tests so that is inevitable (but peace of mind is not a bad thing).
I understand the "low risk" nature of the acts performed but you feel the cut in my mouth is of no concern? again it was about a week old and it definitely was healing but was still not fully healed (although in the last two days it has healed almost completely). That was my real concern as I went down on the provider for a very brief amount of time (not trying to be graphic but i only licked her a few times then stopped).
Thanks again.
I also used mouthwash about 10 minutes after the encounter (when I got home). I am not sure if this would help anything as it was not directly after but i guess it could not have hurt anything.
Thanks again in advance for the answers/positive support. I am sure you guys have to deal with a lot of the same questions but please know that it is greatly appreciated and certainly helps with the anxiety side of things.
If I were worried abut the cut in your mouth, I would have mentioned it. Cuts of this sort, as well as denatl problems are not known to increase risk for infection...Please don't worry. EWH
Thanks Doc. I will obviously have specific answers in a week and will verify with another round of tests down the road.
Still a nervous wreck but I do appreciate the responses.
Glad I could help. I am confident your tests will be negative. You may post your results when available. Until then, there will be no further answers. Take care. EWH