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CUNNILINGUS RISK
Dear Doctor HHH,
4 weeks ago I met a women at my friend party,after few shots of alcohol I did my big misstated in my life.
So I did cunnilingus on a women and after 3 licks in her.. about 1 second and tasted some fluids in front of it( no smell at all) and then I'm start to panic of my stupidly and I found out she is massage parlor.
That incident tore me apart til now and I'm scare to touch or kiss my women that I might transfer any STD to Her.
I visit HIV forum and post my scenario and Dear Teak said no test for HIV.
16 days after that I went to doctor office to take STD blood test and doctor check my throat.He said is fine, and next days he call me came in for urine test. I already peed about 30 min before came to the test.Came out Neg
Please help me with this:
1- In my case there is risk level that I have to dealing with STD nor HIV.
2- 16 days after: blood test and urine test are reliable? Peed 30 min before and then peed again to Urine test bottle is it test reliable?
3- Do I need Oral swab test ?Gonorrhea- Chlamydia- HPV ?
4- There is any STD transmitting risk from that fluids?
5- Unclear about her genital wart, also there a risk ? and it will appear in my mouth?
6- Now 4 weeks pass of incident I have no symptom like sore throat,no discharge what else that I need to concern about ?
I 'm so sorry for my anxious matter, such a mess question.I don't want my 25 year marriage broken.Please help.
Thank you for your time and your patient.
4 weeks ago I met a women at my friend party,after few shots of alcohol I did my big misstated in my life.
So I did cunnilingus on a women and after 3 licks in her.. about 1 second and tasted some fluids in front of it( no smell at all) and then I'm start to panic of my stupidly and I found out she is massage parlor.
That incident tore me apart til now and I'm scare to touch or kiss my women that I might transfer any STD to Her.
I visit HIV forum and post my scenario and Dear Teak said no test for HIV.
16 days after that I went to doctor office to take STD blood test and doctor check my throat.He said is fine, and next days he call me came in for urine test. I already peed about 30 min before came to the test.Came out Neg
Please help me with this:
1- In my case there is risk level that I have to dealing with STD nor HIV.
2- 16 days after: blood test and urine test are reliable? Peed 30 min before and then peed again to Urine test bottle is it test reliable?
3- Do I need Oral swab test ?Gonorrhea- Chlamydia- HPV ?
4- There is any STD transmitting risk from that fluids?
5- Unclear about her genital wart, also there a risk ? and it will appear in my mouth?
6- Now 4 weeks pass of incident I have no symptom like sore throat,no discharge what else that I need to concern about ?
I 'm so sorry for my anxious matter, such a mess question.I don't want my 25 year marriage broken.Please help.
Thank you for your time and your patient.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome to the forum.
In general, oral sex is low risk for all STDs -- much lower than for vaginal or anal sex. Some STDs rarely infect the mouth and throat, and even when one partner is infected (either genital or oral), transmission is inefficient -- i.e. most infections don't get transmitted. Cunnilingus is expecially safe -- very low risk for all STDs and zero risk for some. And you had a very brief exposure, which would have further reduced the transmission risk. To your specific questions:
1,3) Zero risk or very close to it. You really don't need testing at all. The only test I would even consider, if you came to my clinic, would be a throat swab for gonorrhea. (Chlamydia testing usually is automatic with a gonorrhea test, but chlamydia rarely infects the throat anyway.) There is no approved test for HPV and even if there were, I would not recommend it.
2) Urine tests for gonorrhea are valid after only 2-3 days, and errors in collection make no difference. But your urine test was useless anyway. STDs don't travel through the body to give positive tests at unexposed sites.
4) See above.
5) I don't understand. Did your partner have genital warts? Anyway, oral warts are extremely rare.
6) You have no STD. Do your best to stop worrying about it. You can safely have unprotected sex with your regular partner. That's what I would do with my wife, if I were in your situation.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
In general, oral sex is low risk for all STDs -- much lower than for vaginal or anal sex. Some STDs rarely infect the mouth and throat, and even when one partner is infected (either genital or oral), transmission is inefficient -- i.e. most infections don't get transmitted. Cunnilingus is expecially safe -- very low risk for all STDs and zero risk for some. And you had a very brief exposure, which would have further reduced the transmission risk. To your specific questions:
1,3) Zero risk or very close to it. You really don't need testing at all. The only test I would even consider, if you came to my clinic, would be a throat swab for gonorrhea. (Chlamydia testing usually is automatic with a gonorrhea test, but chlamydia rarely infects the throat anyway.) There is no approved test for HPV and even if there were, I would not recommend it.
2) Urine tests for gonorrhea are valid after only 2-3 days, and errors in collection make no difference. But your urine test was useless anyway. STDs don't travel through the body to give positive tests at unexposed sites.
4) See above.
5) I don't understand. Did your partner have genital warts? Anyway, oral warts are extremely rare.
6) You have no STD. Do your best to stop worrying about it. You can safely have unprotected sex with your regular partner. That's what I would do with my wife, if I were in your situation.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
Thank you very much Sir.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Oral HPV is uncommon and very unlikely from such a brief exposure. This is nothing to worry about.
Dear Doctor HHH,
I'm really sorry for my question:
Do I need to worry about HPV in my brief cunnilingus.
I'm worry for my because HPV sound like silent symtom.
Thank you again
I'm really sorry for my question:
Do I need to worry about HPV in my brief cunnilingus.
I'm worry for my because HPV sound like silent symtom.
Thank you again
Dear Doctor HHH,
I'M really appreciate for your opinions and It helping me to drop like a thousand pounds in my mine.Now stress is biggest thing I have to dealing with.
5) I'm not clear that women have genital wart at that time or not.
THANK YOU is not Enough word to say to You and Dear Teak and Dear Vance2335.
I'M really appreciate for your opinions and It helping me to drop like a thousand pounds in my mine.Now stress is biggest thing I have to dealing with.
5) I'm not clear that women have genital wart at that time or not.
THANK YOU is not Enough word to say to You and Dear Teak and Dear Vance2335.
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