Welcome to the Forum. My answer will be much shorter than your question. Yes, you can comfortably have unprotected sex with your wife without fear that you have an STI which you could transmit to her. Your tests for gonorrhea, chlamydia, NSU, syphilis, hepatitis and HIV are all conclusive and should be believed
The only exception is HPV. Given your history the odds are high that you have HPV. You probably have it (but cannot test- there are no HPV tests recommended for men), like most sexually active persons and if your partner has had other partners, she probably does too. She should get the HPV vaccine, as it is recommended for most women and is highly effective in preventing acquisition of new HPV infections.
Other than making sure that your partner has had the HPV vaccine, there is no reason for concern. There is no need for additional testing. EWH
All the CSWs were Eastern European/Hunagarian or Romanian.
Test done four weeks after last sex was: HIV Duo, Gonorrhoea (oral swab also), Syphilis, NSU, Chlamydia, HCV, HBV, Urine tests.
Iv decided to be monogamous and settle down and have kids but not before I can be confident that I will not infect my wife with STIs/HERPES!
I will be happy to clarify anything further.
Anticipated thanks.
Thank you very much.
I will make sure that she gets her HPV vaccine.
I will seek no additional testing, which I suppose you also mean for Herpes also since I did not get it after my exposures/symptoms in 2013. I imply that your answer included Herpes also when you said that I can have unprotected sex with my wife without STIs fear.
Should I be wrong in understanding it, please inform me.
Thank you very very much for your help. Sorry for the lengthy question.
Just to add, I was freshly shaved and had nicks/cuts on shaft/scrotum on the day I got unprotected oral from CSW. Please read my above comment about my understanding of your answer.
Yes, I did include herpes in my assessment and advice. the lesions you describe on your penis do not suggest HSV at all. EWH
Thank you doctor. I will hence have no further STD test and no Herpes test as you suggested. Thank you for allowing me to move on with my life and saving my future marriage.
Cheers
Take care and regards from Y in UK.
Glad to help. Take care. EWH
Dr I have one last question please. In most of my protected sex in this year the condom slipped halfway or more during sex but penis head was always covered all the way during penetration. I assumed this still is protected sex but still its casting a doubt in my mind.
Does this change anything in your assessment or advice?
Im really sorry to return like this. I will not have any other query or post.
i meant most of protected sexes with CSWs the condoms slipped halfway or more during sex but penis head was always covered all the way during penetration in all of them
also some of the CSWs in 2013 had oral piercings and long fingernails and used same condom for oral and vaginal. One even inserted her long nails inside condom before putting it on with her mouth. Condom did not appear broken at end of sex though. Maybe small holes in it??
ANd in most of my protected sexes with CSWs in this year the condom slipped halfway or more during sex but penis head was always covered all the way during penetration.
just these last worry. Let me know if it changes anything.
On the last occasion I also had one pimple on scrotum/base of shaft on which the CSW had performed unprotected oral and I also used a penis vibrator ring I found there which touched with the pimple as well as fresh genital area shaving wounds (30 min old). All this with the piercings thing above may be causing holes in condom, the condom slipping a bit and all.. please consider and tell me last thing
I am just anxious. I will not ask anything after you answer. Just want to put it behind me. As said negative for all STIs but No Herpes test done.
You are overthinking this. No change in my assessment or advice. If the condom covered the head of your penis you were protected. EWH
Thank you doctor. Was just anxious. Perhaps due to my lack of sex education.
Putting this behind me forever now and moving on with my life with my wife. Getting back to the marriage preparations!!!
Cheers and thank you very much. Moving forward with confidence I have no STD/HERPES.
All thanks to you!