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hello.I ma 40 years old man from Italy living in tokyo.yesterday i made a mistake and i called a message parlor.I met a girl 23 years old and we went to an hotel together.the intercourse was:me totally naked on bed, i received a message with lotion full body.sometimes she kissed my nipples and licked my ears.Sometimes she made the message with her breast.she also gave me 2 times an handjob.we never kiss each others and there was no genitals contacts or fulid exchange.I know is a very low risk practice and maybe i am overreacting cause of my sense og guilty ( iam married).
doctor, do i risked something for that interocurse??sorry for my uncorrect english.thank you
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thank you very much Doctor, i feel rielief.So even kissing it could be considered a low risk sex intercourse?
thank you very much!
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Welcome to the forum.  Thanks for your question.

Your self-assessment is exactly right with "I know is a very low risk practice".  There simply is no realistic chance of any STD from hand-genital contact, by kissing, or by mouth contact with nippes or other parts of the body.

Therefore, I suspect you are also correct that "maybe i am overreacting cause of my sense [of guilt]".  Do not confuse STD risk with a sexual choice that you regret.  They are not the same.  You do not need testing for any STD, and if you have a regular partner, you can safely continue unprotected sex without risk.  

I hope this has helped.  Best wishes--  HHH, MD
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