I think this was probably just bad timing, but about 3 months ago I was spending a lot of time with a friend who said he was diagnosed with a primary genital herpes infection (don't know HSV1 or 2). We had no physical contact and didn't share any utensils, towels, etc. At around that same time, I started getting sores in my mouth. They were never outside of my mouth, not painful, and seemed to me like canker sores- mostly by themselves, with a white inner circle, relatively small. I had them pretty constantly over about a 3-4 week period. Because of the timing, and because my wife is pregnant, I decided to be safe and get tested. I have not experienced any other symptoms and have not seen any sores on my genitals.
My doctor had both the IgM and IgG tests done. They were done at QuestDiagnostics, so I believe the IgG tests were the HerpesSelect.
I had 3 sets of tests:
1) After 6 weeks- IgM- positive, IgG for HSV1 was .10, and IgG for HSV2 was .09
2) Was suprised by the results, so had it redone 2 days later- IgM was positive, IgG for HSV1 was .12, and IgG for HSV2 was .10
3) Between 12-13 weeks total- IgM- positive, IgG for HSV1 was .15 and IgG for HSV2 was .08.
I realize the IgM tests are not accurate, for various reasons discussed in this forum. In addition to these tests, I also got tested for EBV and came up positive for prior infection (IgM negative, but IgG was positive). So, there might be some cross-reaction. Do you agree?
My main questions are:
1) Would you agree with my doctor who is saying that my IgG for HSV1 is on the rise (he believes in the IgM accurately reflecting a recent infection) and that I should get tested again in 3-6 months to see if I have HSV1 or is a .05 variation (.10 to .15) not meaningful?
2) If, in fact, I do have oral herpes (which I don't think I do), besides not performing oral sex on my wife, are there any other precautions I need to take, given that she is 5 months pregnant?
Thank you.