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What is the possibility????? I am really worried...
OKay, I am a married woman. Been with my husband for 6 years, had a baby 3 years ago..So up until this point have not had an STD to my knowledge anyways.
3 weeks ago I had an affair. Will NEVER happen again, I feel like I am worthless person for even doing it.
We had protected sex in which he ejaculated into the condom. 10 minutes later we had unprotected sex which only lasted 1 minute at THE MOST... (he DID NOT ejaculate)
My questions are...
1. What is the possibilty I could be pregnant from that incidence?
2. About 4 days ago, I have been having yellowish discharge from my vagina. Not itchy at all, and doesnt even smell out of the ordinary. What are the chances I caught an STD? And if there are chances that I did, what could it be?
3.Also I have noticed a pimple looking thing on my outer labia. Only hurts when I wipe, I dont notice it any other time, and there is only one. I do get cold sores of the mouth, and this DOES not look anything close to an ulcer..Could this be herpes?
I think I remember having these before now too, and that was before the affair.
4.My husband and I rarely have sex, so since my encounter him and I have not even had sex, so if I had a STD is there any other way he could catch one??
Thank you in advance for answering these questions that I shouldnt even be asking in the first place.
3 weeks ago I had an affair. Will NEVER happen again, I feel like I am worthless person for even doing it.
We had protected sex in which he ejaculated into the condom. 10 minutes later we had unprotected sex which only lasted 1 minute at THE MOST... (he DID NOT ejaculate)
My questions are...
1. What is the possibilty I could be pregnant from that incidence?
2. About 4 days ago, I have been having yellowish discharge from my vagina. Not itchy at all, and doesnt even smell out of the ordinary. What are the chances I caught an STD? And if there are chances that I did, what could it be?
3.Also I have noticed a pimple looking thing on my outer labia. Only hurts when I wipe, I dont notice it any other time, and there is only one. I do get cold sores of the mouth, and this DOES not look anything close to an ulcer..Could this be herpes?
I think I remember having these before now too, and that was before the affair.
4.My husband and I rarely have sex, so since my encounter him and I have not even had sex, so if I had a STD is there any other way he could catch one??
Thank you in advance for answering these questions that I shouldnt even be asking in the first place.
Highly doubtful you are pregnant from that incident. The yellowish discharge can mean bacterial vaginosis, which isn't an std. Are you sure it's yellow and maybe not a drop off pee mixed in with your normal discharge? The "pimple" is suspicious, but if it is herpes you did not catch it from your one night stand. I think you should have anything abnormal on the genitals looked at within 24 hours of appearance for an accurate diagnosis. I think it's in your best interest to get cleared of std's, especially the bacterial ones, before engaging in sex again with your husband. Just as a safety percaution. Good luck!
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Relax; this sounds like a very low-risk situation.
1) I'm not an expert on conception statistics, but I believe the chance is tiny.
2) Yellowish vaginal discharge could well be due to chlamydia, gonorrhea, or other STD, especially if it is not something you have experienced before. See a health care provider right away.
3) Atypical for herpes, especially an initial new infection, but possible. Intitial genital herpes can cause vaginal discharge as well as pimple-like lesions, so all the more reason to get examined promptly. The sooner you are seen, the more accurate your provider's diagnosis will be, both by direct examination and by lab testing.
4) Not to sound too glib, but they call them STDs because you have to have sex to transmit them. STDs are never transmitted to household members nonsexually.
Bottom line: Get checked right away. If you don't have (or don't want to use) your primary health care provider, a local health department STD or family planning clinic would be an excellent choice for expert, confidential care; or a local Planned Parenthood clinic.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
1) I'm not an expert on conception statistics, but I believe the chance is tiny.
2) Yellowish vaginal discharge could well be due to chlamydia, gonorrhea, or other STD, especially if it is not something you have experienced before. See a health care provider right away.
3) Atypical for herpes, especially an initial new infection, but possible. Intitial genital herpes can cause vaginal discharge as well as pimple-like lesions, so all the more reason to get examined promptly. The sooner you are seen, the more accurate your provider's diagnosis will be, both by direct examination and by lab testing.
4) Not to sound too glib, but they call them STDs because you have to have sex to transmit them. STDs are never transmitted to household members nonsexually.
Bottom line: Get checked right away. If you don't have (or don't want to use) your primary health care provider, a local health department STD or family planning clinic would be an excellent choice for expert, confidential care; or a local Planned Parenthood clinic.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
