Of course I can't tell by certain, but it is likely you have genital warts. Stop trying to remove them yourself; in the long run you probably will make it worse. See a health care provider for proper diagnosis and treatment. If you don't have a regular doctor, go to your local health department STD clinic for expert care at little or no cost.
The human papillomavirus (HPV) types that cause cancer and most pre-cancerous changes on a woman's pap smear are different than those that cause genital warts.
Good luck-- HHH, MD
Is it typical for them to return like that? And is there a way i can treat that one without going anywhere public? And also will I eventually get another wart or two or three? And will it ever turn into cancer?
And if I am having unprotected sex with that same person now should they get an outbreak or should they protect them selves with condoms? I have had unprotected sex with them for like 5 years and they never got an outbreak.
Yes, warts come back. They are especially likely to come back if inadequately treated; and you can be certain your self-treatment was seriously inadequate. Your partner(s) undoubtedly are carrying the virus by now, but most infected people don't develop visible warts.
You need to see a health care provider; anything else is just plain irresponsible. Online opinions from me or anyone else are not a substitute, and I will have no further responses unless and until you report the findings after you are examined.
HHH, MD