concern

[acacia11]

Hi Doctor, I am a dancer a work in a bikini bar, and I am worry about to get and std or hiv from giving a lap dance to a customer. I do not do any kind of sexual contact, no hand job, no kissing, no sex, nothing. and beside I always wear my g string and top, like I say is a bikiny bar. My concer is because we sit in their lap during the dance sorry for my expresion but I do some grinding. and few days ago I was dancing for a customer and I felt soemthing wet in his pant and I saw a little wet spot in his pant I guess he got exited. so my question is can I get and std or hiv from this kind behavour? because during the dance we sit on thier lap and I was thinking maybe the fluid can get in my parts and I can catch and infection from it . explanation no sexual behavour at all just lap dance.
sorry for my question and my english. thank you very much.  

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Glad to help. Take care. EWH

[acacia11]

yes, doctor I always keep my g string on and top always, and it is true that  you say that is not the first time i saw the wet spot on the customers. I do my right thing to be healthy, I do the griding how i mentioned in my last post but  nothing else that can compromise my health. because I was concern about the std or hiv. but you have answered  my question and I apreciate. it very much.

thank you, god bless you.
and I is a great forum.

[Edward W Hook, MD]

Welcome to our site. I'll be happy to answer your question.  I suspect this will not be the last time that you find that a client whose lap you have sat upon or perhaps grinded with develop wet spots on their pants. such spots are most likely genital secretions due to the arousal your dance has caused.  STDs, including HIV however are not spread through clothing, even clothing that has been wet by genital secretions.  Thus, as long as you keep your g-string on and they have their pants on without exposing their genitals, there is no risk to you of STD transmission.  

I hope this answer is helpful to you.  Take care. EWH