6 months ago, I noticed a small, circular, flesh colored bump on the top of the head of my penis. When I was erect, the pimple looked more whitish. It would not pop, so I know it was not a pimple.
I saw my family practice doc who said it was nothing. It persisted for several weeks so I saw an NP at Planned Parenthood. She said it was either nothing or mulluscom, and would go away by itself. She said no need to tell partners once it was gone.
After a few more weeks, I went to a dermatologist. He said it looked like a flat wart, but wasn't sure w/out a biopsy. However, he did not think a biopsy was needed, and suggested cryotherapy. He said I would not be contagious after healing.
This treatment reduced the size but didn't get rid of the thing. I went back to the derm office and saw derm number 2 (first derm out of town). She used more cryo. She said she could not diagnosis given non-virgin state of lesion, but did say when it was gone and the wound healed, I would not be contagious.
Cryo was successful and wound healed. Derm wanted to see it after healing, so I went back. Both derms looked at the spot, declared me fine and non-contagious. That was 3 1/2 months ago.
My question is an ethical one. I was recently asked by a new partner if I have ever had an STI. I said no, but realized later that the truth is I don't know. NP said not HPV, derm said looks like flat wart. I feel confused why he would say it looks like a wart, but that I am not contagious. I have read online (asha site) that one can be contagious after successful cryotherapy. On the same site they have a video of a doc who says if you had HPV symptoms but that was in your distant past, you don't need to tell a sexual partner about the HPV.
Help me sort through this one. I have had 3 health prof (not including family practice) say I am not contagious. Am I just obsessing, or is there a need to tell partners (esp one who asks if I have ever had an STI) about this incident?
Thank you!