Thankyou so very much. You all provide a great service here. God Bless.
No, no worries for either child. Best wishes for a successful delivery and for your growing family.
Dr.,
Sorry one last question do I need to have any worry for my 17 month old or for my current pregnancy? Thanks.
Dr.
Thankyou for your quick response I did not know that genital wart strains of hpv would cause my pap to be abnormal if present that does make me feel better. I will try to put it behind me and continue on. And I am 100% sure of my sexual history and my husbands. Thankyou so much again.
Welcome to the forum. I'll try to help. The bottom lines are first that you are at low risk for HPV, and in the circumstances described, HPV immunization seems to be optional. The chance you caught HPV from fingering is extremely low, zero for all practical purposes. But if you DID catch HIV during that event, vaccination won't help; the vaccine only protects against future HPV infections and can't do anything about HPV acquired before immunization.
To your specific questions:
1) "Am I at risk for genital warts or cervical cancer strains of HPV...?" If your sexual history is accurate, i.e. neither you nor your husband has ever had intercourse with another partner, then your risk for having HPV is very low. However, it probably isn't zero risk. Only you know your history and you know your husband better than I do -- but I can tell you that HPV sometimes appears in couples like you. It isn't known whether this is because one partner wasn't truthful, or didn't remember a sexual event (e.g. alcohol related), or caught the virus from a very low risk event (e.g., oral sex, fingering, etc), or because some HPV infections are not sexually acquired. We just know that it happens sometimes.
It is because these things often don't have clear answers that the HPV vaccine is recommended for all sexually active (non-virgin) persons up to age 26. However, if your sexual history is accurate, then vaccination is optional. The risk of HPV by fingering may not be zero, but it is very, very low, so the event 3 years ago shouldn't have any influence one way or the other.
2) If you had acquired a wart-causing strain of HPV, warts probably would have shown up by now. All other HPV infections are usually cause no symptoms at all. But I stress that you were at no measurable risk of HPV of any type from a single fingering event.
3) The wart-causing HPV types often cause pap smear abnormalities. Paps detect HPV infection of any type, not just the cancer-causing ones.
Bottom line: I agree with both your husband and your doctor; it is time to put that event behind you and stop overreacting to it. From a strict risk assessment standpoint, you probably don't need immunization against HPV. Still, I recommend patients follow their doctors' advice. Whether or not you do it, you really should not be at all concerned about HPV.
Regards-- HHH, MD