I don't quite know what to make of your symptoms, which don't sound like any STD. What does head of penis 'feeling infected' mean? Semen-like discharge after urinating sounds like possible prostatitis, but that's not usually due to infection and isn't sexually acquired. Your partner's warts or BV wouldn't cause such symptoms. Herpes symptoms don't come and go over a couple of days, and in general your symptoms don't sound at all like herpes. Maybe just nonspecific inflammation (balanitis is the medical term) or a yeast infection, especially if you are uncircumcised and the rash is mostly under the foreskin. Also, it is unclear what you mean by your partner's HSV-2 diagnosis. Did she have overt herpes lesions? A positive blood test? Or just her provider's opinion?
To your questions: 1) Combining your symptoms (not at all like herpes) and the negative Biokit test, most likely you don't have HSV-2. However, it takes up to 3 months for blood tests like Biokit to become positive, so your provider is in doubt, you might want to be retested in a couple of months. 2) Azithromycin (Zithromax) does not cause discharge. 3) No, your rash doesn't sound like herpes, either from the description or the timing. 4) See above.
Bottom line: Follow up with your personal provider if your symptoms persist. Ask specifically about yeast and about nonspecific balanitis. Be on the lookout for genital warts, which can take several weeks to a few months to show up. In any case, none of this sounds serious in any way.
I hope this helps. Best wishes-- HHH, MD
By "feeling infected" I mean the glans feels like it burns. It has been constant from week 1 and it seems to burn in different areas, but always burns. I'm pretty certain my urine was tested for yeast, but not the outside skin.
I asked about balanitis but it was dismissed, my thought was because I'm circumcised and while there is redness, it isn't grossly inflamed. My provider suggested that I see a dermatologist if that symptom persists, but I thought I should wait until I find out if it's HSV2.
My contact's hsv was diagnosed by a proper blood test (Herpeselect) and isn't in question, though she had no idea, nor has she ever had any lesions or any symptom she was aware of. We only had one contact and I know the odds, but I'm afraid I"ve beaten them. The fact that I had symptoms before she tested positive for HSV2 is very alarming.
I had a DRE and a PSA blood test. The blood test was good, the DRE, the clinician said my prostate felt "slightly inflamed". The ejaculate discharge seems to be the mystery symptom. It felt as though it came from my prostate area.
I was wondering if warts could cause burning as a prelude to showing up, but I find no indication of that symptom anywhere I've looked.
Thanks again, any followup comments are appreciated.