I went to a party on October 8 where I ended up getting drunk and having unprotected sex with a guy I had only known for about a week (sounds familar, huh?). I work with the guy so I still talk to him often but I don't know how to bring up the topic of HIV or STds. Of course there was precum but he never actually ejaculated inside of me. About three days later I came down with a cold, the usual, sneezing, stuffy nose and ears, post nasal drip, sore throat and productive cough. My roommate and two other girls that I went to the party with all got sick as well. After about three weeks I was still sick, off and on, especially in the morning (so was my roommate and the other girls). I started getting a slight headache, I thought it was sinuses. And one day I had a temp that never reached 101, but I had a pretty bad head ache. I decided to go back to the doctor because I thought I had a sinus infection, but I didn't. Then on November 7th, now a month later, I woke up in the morning and I had a crust over my eye, like pink eye, but it wasn't really bad. On the 8th I woke up with a really bad sore throat and by night time I was running a fever. I still had the head ache, stuffy nose/ears, cough and post nasal drip, but now my lyph nodes are swollen too. I went to the doctor again, just a virus. My fever lasted about 3 days (gone now), and the head ache is off and on, but my throat is still very sore, stuffy nose, cough, post nasal drip, blah blah. I'm noticing now that my cough is bringing up some yellow stuff, and my eyes are still itchy and kind of pink.
I've been checked for other STDs like chlamydia and gonorrhea, both came back negative. I haven't noticed anything that could be herpes symptoms, although lots of people never have symptoms.
For the past month I haven't really given myself a chance to recover. I've been going to class, and going out to parties where I have been drinking every weekend. I haven't been working out, and I've been eating poorly (I know, I'm a dietitian, or soon to be). Usually I don't eat more than one meal a day, and then go out to eat for dinner. Also, for the past month, as expected, I've been worried/stressing over any possible STDs. After the fever I decided to go home, not go to classes, forget about homework for a while, NOT GO OUT AND DRINK, and just rest and try and get better. But the stressing about STDs still hasn't stopped. I just keep thinking about the possibility and getting scared. How would I tell my Mom? What if I give it to someone else?
I'm sorry if I've wasted your time, and I know a lot of people have similar questions, but I'm scared. Is this just a cold? Or could this really be an acute HIV infection?