From what others have posted on the various support boards for herpes - you can't always get a herpes select at the GUM clinics in the UK. If the clinic near you doesn't offer it - ask for the name of a private doctor nearby that does offer it though I believe you'll have to pay for it out of pocket. There are also several herpes support groups in the UK you can contact to ask for more help finding a place to have one drawn.
grace
That exposure indeed was low risk and the symptoms you describe don't sound like herpes. But if in doubt, a GUM clinic is the place to get the best advice.
HHH, MD
Thanks Doc, I didn't think it was available in the UK.
If there are already potential symptoms at 3-4 weeks would the test most likely show positive?
By Symptoms I don't have any lesions but the end of my penis is tender around the head on one side - not really bad but I think I can notice it and, if anything it the head appears a little bruised (purple'ish in colour). I had a Chlam/Gonn swab done which was neg, but was a little "violent" (ie it hurt).
Maybe I'm just bruised down there but it's 2 weeks post exposure and I kinda thought that any bruising would be calming down now?
My expose was low risk - oral plus vigourous hand job (hence the possible bruising)...
Any comments? Am I over-reacting a bit here?
Thanks
Visit any of the excellent genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinics that exist in all large metropolitan areas and many smaller ones. They will have HerpeSelect, or other type-specific HSV blood tests that work just as well; and you can count on expert care by people who know their business.
Four weeks after a possible is too soon. It typically takes 6-8 weeks to become positive, often 3 months. On the other hand, sometimes a good approach is to have an initial test, expecting it to be negative, then a follow-up test at 3 months. If you test only once and have a positive result, you won't know whether you caught it during the exposure you are concerned about, or some time before that.
Visit a GUM clinic soon, then follow their advice about whether and when to be tested.
Good luck-- HHH, MD