hug me? lol

[cboss77]

I dont know if I have a question, I am all questioned out. I just want a place to go where my mom cant tell me mind over matter, or you are as weak as them lol. do you have a virtual bench I can borrow to drink my virtual coffee and just be?

[illinwithoutacause]

you have come to the right place.  we virtually hug each other.   a LOT.

i am sorry you're having a hard time, but you are in good company.

with unconditional hugs,
binx

[jibjen]

Hugs to you......Hugs for everyone.....

Jibs

[suzsibs]

HUGS ARE FREE HERE ;o)

We give them without question, because WE KNOW.

Mums aren't always what they are supposed to be, I spoke to my Mum re: some blood tests I've had taken and she changed the subject to my sisters dog who has just been diagnosed with cancer. Poor dog, she is lovely BUT I'm your daughter. I'll be 50 soon and I should know better as she's been like this all my life, I still haven't got round to challenging her about it and honestly I think it would be a waste of time.
I've made lots of friends on here, some are like daughters, some like sisters and some like Mums.

Big squeeze.
Suz

[faithhopegreatestlove]

cboss,
You are now talking to people who have walked in your shoes. My friends and family think they are helping when they say things I've come to see as well-meaning but ignorant. Sharing with people who can't seem to get it (ie. my husband, son, etc...) leaves me feeling devastated all over again. I'm so thankful for this forum and the support I've found here!!!!

--faithHGL

[hedgehog_under_myskin]

((((((YOU))))))  ....  sometimes we all just need a hug for things that we can't put into words.  Sending thoughts, prayers and love, all wrapped up in a hug. ~ Me. xxx

[MrsAristotle]

Well if you bring the coffee me and sara will bring the cakes lol.

Although my mum had to support my dad through his long illness she still tells me to get on with it lol......as her hubby my dad still went to work when he was in pain with his feet.....

Well mum it isnt just the pain in my feet that stop me from earning over 25,000 pounds a year it is all the stuff that goes with it lol.

Still even so she is a wonderful mum and I forgive her I just dont mention illness to her whats the point.

So grab your coffee and park your bum on our bench and vent away. xx

[SLadylani]

Ay, the mom. My mom tells me to put my big girl panties on and deal with it!  So I've decided I can seek support elsewhere other than my mom, which is why I've come here. The members are great and I found true experience, strength, and hope here, added with wisdom.

My mom, and best friend/soul mate both got tired of me, I'm a former drug user, clean/sober now over 4 years, and recovered anorexic/currently in recovery times 9 months. Anything new, even if it's a serious medical condition apparently, is just too much for them to handle and is pushed off as a psychotic issue.

It's nice to have somewhere to go to let it out, get feedback and support, and most of the time not be judged or labeled, and I find this is the group to do that in.