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Are we still virgins?
Recently, I was talking to my boyfriend and the topic of virginity came up. Neither of us quite knows where to draw the line, and while it doesn't really matter, I was wondering what most people think. We have kissed, touched, masturbated with each other, had dry sex (like, dry humping), and had oral sex, but never anal or vaginal sex. Once during dry sex, he accidentally penetrated, but only for a brief moment, and it was through his boxers and my swimsuit. So, in your opinion, are we virgins, or not, and if not, then we did we stop being virgins?
You may be medically a virgin, if your hymen is unbroken. Sex with a female partner us different, but if she did not use an object for penetration, the hymen would still be intact. Remember that std's can be transmitted anyway.
The reason I am slightly uncertain about my status in this is because I am pansexual, so if I was with a girl and had oral sex for the first time, I don't know if I would consider myself a virgin then anymore or not, either.
Real sex is vaginal-penis penetration. You are still a virgin. However, if you have been penetrating yourself with your fingers or a foreign object such as a sexy toy, you are de-virginizing yourself thru masturbation. Therefore, when you do experience real sex, you might see little to no blood during the 1st actual vaginal-penis penetration.
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