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Don't know why its not happening

My lady & I have been together since January, Have had sex weekly, have exchanged rings and vows.  I use ED medication and a cockring and while I've had orgasms masturbating, I've never achieved orgasm with her.
I've been up 'n rockin' w/o either meds or ring sometimes.
I'm a Stroke survivor and have been going through chemo.  I couldnt get hard, even w/ meds at first but now we're almost always having fantastic coupling, and she is totally satisfied.
Emotionally I'm taking the ride with her, but I don't orgasm myself
I'm 48
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558991 tn?1226060828
I find in funny that it says you're a female in your profile....Ha ha ha.
Try stimulating the area right under the head of the penis. It has a bunch of nerve endings and it sort of like a G-Spot for men.
Also, prostate stimulation and speed up and help with ejaculation, but I'm not sure how far you're willing to go.
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587904 tn?1220012722
Maybe you should go to a doctor for help, I am sure he can offer you something to help you out. b/c this is also leaving you'r wife out of getting off all the way i am sure. when the man get off the female will have her big orgasms. so please go talk to a doctor to help you both out
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