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Can't achieve orgasm full stop and sex often hurts
I have been in a sexual relationship for 2 years now and have been unable to ever reach orgasm. I have a high sex drive however during intercourse there seems to be no 'end' it is always constant and after a while I just dry out and sex becomes painful and this often happens before my partner has 'finished'. Attempting to have intercourse twice in the same day or even the next day will be painful and although I have the drive for it, it is just painful.
Clitoral stimulation doesn't really do much for me and for this reason I don't masturbate and the only way I can is by rubbing my legs together. After clitoral stimulation it often becomes over sensitive and just hurts to touch, one thing I noticed is that I don't think I even have a clitoral hood to begin with and this may be the reason.
I am very confused, and worried I will never achieve orgasm, and don't understand why clitoral stimulation doesn't even feel great (I mean I can feel something but it's not amazing and never climaxes) and after a while is too sensitive to touch.
any help please?
Clitoral stimulation doesn't really do much for me and for this reason I don't masturbate and the only way I can is by rubbing my legs together. After clitoral stimulation it often becomes over sensitive and just hurts to touch, one thing I noticed is that I don't think I even have a clitoral hood to begin with and this may be the reason.
I am very confused, and worried I will never achieve orgasm, and don't understand why clitoral stimulation doesn't even feel great (I mean I can feel something but it's not amazing and never climaxes) and after a while is too sensitive to touch.
any help please?
Hi missbelle1, glad you responded....
This is not psychological...
You state you can't see your clit hood. I find that awkward. The clit hood covers and protects the clitoris which explains why the clit is always sensitive to touch and feels such pleasure, it's because it's not exposed to the environment such as the air. You stating you have no clit hood or not enough clit hood would explain the drying out of your clit and why you don't feel as much sensation when you're being touched there.
It's just like men who are not circumcised, they have that fore-skin over the penis head so therefore their penis head SHOULD feel more nerve sensation compare to a male that is circumcised.
I recommend you let an urologists take a look at your vagina and just make sure you are normal.
At least you know where your g-spot is... Some women pleasure it all the time and unaware that's the g-spot (at the entrance of the vagina near the very top)
This is not psychological...
You state you can't see your clit hood. I find that awkward. The clit hood covers and protects the clitoris which explains why the clit is always sensitive to touch and feels such pleasure, it's because it's not exposed to the environment such as the air. You stating you have no clit hood or not enough clit hood would explain the drying out of your clit and why you don't feel as much sensation when you're being touched there.
It's just like men who are not circumcised, they have that fore-skin over the penis head so therefore their penis head SHOULD feel more nerve sensation compare to a male that is circumcised.
I recommend you let an urologists take a look at your vagina and just make sure you are normal.
At least you know where your g-spot is... Some women pleasure it all the time and unaware that's the g-spot (at the entrance of the vagina near the very top)
Hey, thanks for responding...I'm 18
When I was younger I didn't enjoy it, I mean I tried to see what the fuss was about but I didn't find it felt nice and didn't enjoy it so I stopped. But i do get like a weird pleasure from crossing my legs, and asked lots of friends and none of them can seem to do that so that's weird (but cant orgasm from that I just stop when I get tired)
and I have seen lots of pictures etc but I literally think I was just born without one, or it's just tiny and can't see it I don't know.
and with the g-spot I do feel more pleasure but only when its my partner I find I just don't feel it when I do it myself so don't enjoy it. I reckon its psychological that I can only feel the pleasure when my partner stimulates me but I have tried it many times.
When I was younger I didn't enjoy it, I mean I tried to see what the fuss was about but I didn't find it felt nice and didn't enjoy it so I stopped. But i do get like a weird pleasure from crossing my legs, and asked lots of friends and none of them can seem to do that so that's weird (but cant orgasm from that I just stop when I get tired)
and I have seen lots of pictures etc but I literally think I was just born without one, or it's just tiny and can't see it I don't know.
and with the g-spot I do feel more pleasure but only when its my partner I find I just don't feel it when I do it myself so don't enjoy it. I reckon its psychological that I can only feel the pleasure when my partner stimulates me but I have tried it many times.
I'm a male but I understand the body very well PLUS I am very analytical (someone that comes down to root of the problem)..
How old are you now?
When you were younger, did you enjoy rubbing your clit?
Explain what happen to your clit hood...
What about stimulating your g-spot? That's more pleasureable than the clit...
Please respond....
thanks.
How old are you now?
When you were younger, did you enjoy rubbing your clit?
Explain what happen to your clit hood...
What about stimulating your g-spot? That's more pleasureable than the clit...
Please respond....
thanks.
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