How often do you have sex?

[Not_Hungry]

I don't know. To me it seems like a thing that's really special, and only happens a few times in 2 months. But people complain how they've gone sooo long without sex and it has been only a month. It just doesn't seem that long. How often are you supposedly to have it?

[hoperenee20]

I have it every other day besides when im on my period. Ive bern always told every other day is normal

[NOHARD]

Hi Hungry, This is a couple to couple thing, some like the special thing/moment, and others just like to do it.
And after doing lots of reading over many years, it goes from 4 times a year, 12 times a year, once weekly, twice weekly, once a day, twice a day, see its just how hungry you are for love making/sex or it.
I dont think you will find, a plan for love making or planned, that makes us like a machine, it should be spontaneous, even if we do it twice a day, but me 5 times since last wednesday, good week for me and my with, as I'm still fighting ED.
Good Luck

[jess674]

Personally I really don`t think you should have sex for the sake of having it, you and your partner kinda both need to be into it for it to be enjoyable. I have been married for 8 years and I know we have had ups and downs within that time period for frequency depending on lots of things including work, stress, kids, health, etc and I don`t think we have ever went more than a month without having sex (except after I gave birth to my 2 children-no sex for 6 weeks). Usually, I would say we have sex 2 times per week, but again it isn`t `scheduled`, some weeks it is more, some less.