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Alot of sex questions from a socially awkward person...
Ok, so I am nearing 18 and have gone to an all boys school since yr 7 and have not really had much experience with girls (unless you count tutoring). These questions have bugged me and sometimes have plagued me since I was 14 but highschool and video games got in the way. Now that I have left and graduated year 12 these questions have come back and kind of haunted me, so I would really appreciate some answers, preferably from both male and females.
Does penis length matter?( I know, alot of men have asked this, but I need to ask as well...although I heard that as long as you are average you are fine, but I also heard from friends that something like 30% of women care?) I am 5-5.5 inches...is that normal?
Does penis girth matter?(Contrary to length, I have heard that girth matters alot, something to do with the nerve endings being pressured and touched more or something.) I am around 4 inches in this department...is that normal?
What is the average penis size including length and girth? I have looked this up prior, but I could always use more sources of information...
How would I make up for it if it turns out my size is not...up to par...? Oral sex? Foreplay? A huge dildo? Sex techniques?
Do penis enhancements work?
How long should pure intercourse last? I heard for most men it was between 2-5 minutes?
How long should sex including foreplay last? I heard that most women want between 30mins-1 hour.
How to last longer? Any techniques?
Where do I find and what kind of sex techniques are there? In case, I don't measure up...
How much sex do girls want, and how often?
I have phimosis...how do I deal with that? I heard you need to get circumcised, but because the tip of my **** is too sensitive when I touch it, would it cause
massive pain and discomfort...or make me *** to quickly? I also heard of steroid creams, and that they help. I always thought that it would correct itself between the age of 20-25 but apparently it was meant to be gone between the ages of 15-18...
How to give oral to a girl? In case....
How long should masturbation last? I tend to be between 5-20 minutes...
How many times should I be doing it per day?
How many times is 'normal?' I usually do it twice or thrice a day...
I started to think about having sex since I first heard about when I was 7...is that normal? I didn't start masturbating until I was 14 or 15 though...
When I first started masturbating and watching porn, it would get hard super quick and fast, and it would often hurt until I was done. However over a period of 2-3
years, although I am mentally excited and feel horny physically, my **** doesn't get hard very fast...or very hard...I often have to rub it until it gets a hard and
even then, until I am near orgasm it isn't as hard as before...what happened and how do I fix this?
From a rather nervous and awkward individual...Thanks in advance.
Does penis length matter?( I know, alot of men have asked this, but I need to ask as well...although I heard that as long as you are average you are fine, but I also heard from friends that something like 30% of women care?) I am 5-5.5 inches...is that normal?
Does penis girth matter?(Contrary to length, I have heard that girth matters alot, something to do with the nerve endings being pressured and touched more or something.) I am around 4 inches in this department...is that normal?
What is the average penis size including length and girth? I have looked this up prior, but I could always use more sources of information...
How would I make up for it if it turns out my size is not...up to par...? Oral sex? Foreplay? A huge dildo? Sex techniques?
Do penis enhancements work?
How long should pure intercourse last? I heard for most men it was between 2-5 minutes?
How long should sex including foreplay last? I heard that most women want between 30mins-1 hour.
How to last longer? Any techniques?
Where do I find and what kind of sex techniques are there? In case, I don't measure up...
How much sex do girls want, and how often?
I have phimosis...how do I deal with that? I heard you need to get circumcised, but because the tip of my **** is too sensitive when I touch it, would it cause
massive pain and discomfort...or make me *** to quickly? I also heard of steroid creams, and that they help. I always thought that it would correct itself between the age of 20-25 but apparently it was meant to be gone between the ages of 15-18...
How to give oral to a girl? In case....
How long should masturbation last? I tend to be between 5-20 minutes...
How many times should I be doing it per day?
How many times is 'normal?' I usually do it twice or thrice a day...
I started to think about having sex since I first heard about when I was 7...is that normal? I didn't start masturbating until I was 14 or 15 though...
When I first started masturbating and watching porn, it would get hard super quick and fast, and it would often hurt until I was done. However over a period of 2-3
years, although I am mentally excited and feel horny physically, my **** doesn't get hard very fast...or very hard...I often have to rub it until it gets a hard and
even then, until I am near orgasm it isn't as hard as before...what happened and how do I fix this?
From a rather nervous and awkward individual...Thanks in advance.
Hi Awkward,Your question are intresting, Does p***s length matter, you will find it hard to get a really good answer on this, but the truth is yes, so atb 5.5 Wnich I take is erect, and at 18 and still growing, so you shold gain another inch yet, so you will be OK, and thickness a women does like, so at 4 and growing, your be ok, nothing to worry about, but for more info on your p***s try pegym, lots of info on there, if you look.
Or you could post to DR Betty Dobson, she will be only to pleased to help you, when it comes to what a women wants, size, thickness and more.
Foreplay as long as you both want it to last, and when it comes to intercause, as long as you can make it last, you find the more you do it the better it will become, for both of you.
When it comes to sex frequentcy, with the right women as much as you both like, dont just leave it to saturday night, boring, be spontaneous is the best rule, and try differant rooms, unless her mums in one dont use that one.
Ok Your foreskin, unless you have a problem with it no just leave, once you get use to having sex it will go away, so just tell your women to be gentle with it, as you have a short fuse, but when on pegym look up edging, its an exersize that will help you.
Oral sex you will find on dobson and ross.
your masturbation time is OK
Masturbating once a day is fine but keep it at that or less, over masturbating can lead to big problems with your health.
Learning about sex at an early age, is one thing doing it at an early age would have been another, so your OK
Now the serious part, porn on the computer and masturbating to it, this can lead to the problems you now have, just try this, you give up masturbating for the next 8 weeks, its giving your body time to reboot, so along with you need to give up porn, its best if you clear away any site you have on the computer, get rid of any downloads and throw away any discs you may have as well, clear your mind of sex, is another way of rebooting your body, now along with no masturbating your to have no sexual contact as well, when you have done the 8 weeks then come back to me and tell me how you are.
Good Luck
Or you could post to DR Betty Dobson, she will be only to pleased to help you, when it comes to what a women wants, size, thickness and more.
Foreplay as long as you both want it to last, and when it comes to intercause, as long as you can make it last, you find the more you do it the better it will become, for both of you.
When it comes to sex frequentcy, with the right women as much as you both like, dont just leave it to saturday night, boring, be spontaneous is the best rule, and try differant rooms, unless her mums in one dont use that one.
Ok Your foreskin, unless you have a problem with it no just leave, once you get use to having sex it will go away, so just tell your women to be gentle with it, as you have a short fuse, but when on pegym look up edging, its an exersize that will help you.
Oral sex you will find on dobson and ross.
your masturbation time is OK
Masturbating once a day is fine but keep it at that or less, over masturbating can lead to big problems with your health.
Learning about sex at an early age, is one thing doing it at an early age would have been another, so your OK
Now the serious part, porn on the computer and masturbating to it, this can lead to the problems you now have, just try this, you give up masturbating for the next 8 weeks, its giving your body time to reboot, so along with you need to give up porn, its best if you clear away any site you have on the computer, get rid of any downloads and throw away any discs you may have as well, clear your mind of sex, is another way of rebooting your body, now along with no masturbating your to have no sexual contact as well, when you have done the 8 weeks then come back to me and tell me how you are.
Good Luck
Hi Awkward, Well you pose lots of questions, but for a good education onn sex google dobson and ross, all you want to know about sex in one place, if you look down the left hand side its all there lots of info and lots and lots of reading, look I'm about to dog walk but will come back theres more to come from the old brain box.
Back in an hour or so.
Good luck
Back in an hour or so.
Good luck
COMMUNITY LEADER
Each woman is different. Communication between both of you during sex is important.
Thanks guys! That helped alot! But in terms of Oral and sex techniques, would I find websites on it online, or is each girl different?
Right.
1. your penis is normal. Average is about 5-6 inches.
2. Most women don't orgasm from intercourse. they need other forms of stimulation i.e mouth, hands
3. penis enhancements usually don't work. Most are a scam.
4. seven minuites is the average length for intercourse. Anything less than two minuites is considered PE.
5. Oral... I would loom up some techniques. However, every woman is different and different techniques would be needed. On the plus side, almost any tongue movement will work in some way :D
6. Masturbation, seems about right. BUT, for the love of Christ, cut down man :L
7. It's normal to hear about sex at 7 (I found my dad's skin mags at 6)
8. I would speak to your doctor about the sensitivity thing.
9. Foreplay, Keep getting her worked up. The longer it takes the greater the pleasure. Don't be too long because it will just get boring. When she's begging for it you know ;) I can't give an exact figure because every couple is different.
I'm not a doctor but it sounds like the problems with your **** stems from masturbation. Cut down and it should help. If all else fails then speak to a doctor.
Hope I helped! :D
1. your penis is normal. Average is about 5-6 inches.
2. Most women don't orgasm from intercourse. they need other forms of stimulation i.e mouth, hands
3. penis enhancements usually don't work. Most are a scam.
4. seven minuites is the average length for intercourse. Anything less than two minuites is considered PE.
5. Oral... I would loom up some techniques. However, every woman is different and different techniques would be needed. On the plus side, almost any tongue movement will work in some way :D
6. Masturbation, seems about right. BUT, for the love of Christ, cut down man :L
7. It's normal to hear about sex at 7 (I found my dad's skin mags at 6)
8. I would speak to your doctor about the sensitivity thing.
9. Foreplay, Keep getting her worked up. The longer it takes the greater the pleasure. Don't be too long because it will just get boring. When she's begging for it you know ;) I can't give an exact figure because every couple is different.
I'm not a doctor but it sounds like the problems with your **** stems from masturbation. Cut down and it should help. If all else fails then speak to a doctor.
Hope I helped! :D
COMMUNITY LEADER
You're in the "normal" size range. So, nothing to worry about there. All women are different and some like men that are average, some like smaller and some like bigger.
I think your problem is you've trained your mind and body with porn and you might be masturbating too much. Try not watching any porn and going a few days without no masturbation to see if that helps.
There is no normal time during a sex act. It all depends on what the couple wants.
When you do meet the right girl and you're ready for sex make sure to use a condom with every single sex act.
I think your problem is you've trained your mind and body with porn and you might be masturbating too much. Try not watching any porn and going a few days without no masturbation to see if that helps.
There is no normal time during a sex act. It all depends on what the couple wants.
When you do meet the right girl and you're ready for sex make sure to use a condom with every single sex act.
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