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Fallen or soft pubic mound

My girlfriend looks like she has no pubis mound! Where other women have raised or flat mound, hers is simply fallen in.  I have looked at other women's vaginal area and it is raised and firm on touch. My girlfriend's vaginal area is very soft to the touch as if there is no bone under it.  I have seen other ladies have their clitoris and labias resting on some firm bone or cartilage but with my girlfriend, it seems as if her clitoris and labia are just suspended in air. Unlike other girls, when I push my fingers in her vigina, I don't feel any hard parts at all.  This makes it very hard for me to get an orgasm because of lack of friction.  My girlfriend only gets an orgasm by me rubbing her clitoris and even then only after her grabbing my hand inside her vagina and tightly squeezing it between her thighs. When my penis is inside her she feels absolutely nothing except if I am in a position where she can tightly squeeze me inside.  But since this position is not easy to sustain, I have never been able to make her come by penetrative sex.  Have you ever come across this kind of anatomy and is there anything that can be done to correct it?
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Hi Mafabix, If you love her then accept the way she is, do we take that your the real guy then 9 inch p***s and thick, or just a 4 inch guy and thin, see we can all pick holes and i cant even see you.
Just try changing the postion you use to one thatbhelps her, sex is a two way thing.
Good Luck
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Don't make her feel abnormal!  She will always be insecure about herself and want to compare with looks and feel of other women.  None of this is helpful. Instead, try different poitions and look at educational books to help find ways to make it better for “her”.  This might lead her to question and therefore inquire of her doctor.
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She has never asked her gyna about it.  I also fear to raise this with her as a problem because she probably thinks all other women are the same.  She does not see any problem and therefore has never talked to her gyna about it.  How can I talk to her without making her feel she is abnormal?  I don't want to make her feel a low self-esteem.
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All women are different but, this could be a birth defect. Has she ever asked her Gynecologist about it? If not, she probably should.
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