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Is something wrong if I feel the need for an orgasm all the time?
Is there something wrong with me if I want sex all the time? I literally feel it from my left ovary area and my vagina. It's not a mind thing. I have to have a release of pressure. I masurbate when my boyfriend isn't here. He is excellent in bed and spends so much time on me. I have at least 20 orgasms in one setting (1-2 hours). Of course most are small orgasms, but I still have several "big O's". Is there something wrong with me?
Hmm.. Men your age (being one of them) are largely mistrustful of women your age because that is the same age that our exes are.
But to answer your question. I think basically your ex had taken over your sexuality and was trying to control it so you couldn't relax and just own it. Now you are free of the bonds of control and your psyche is just going a little nuts enjoying it.
I wouldn't worry too much so long as you keep up on your yearly checkups.
But to answer your question. I think basically your ex had taken over your sexuality and was trying to control it so you couldn't relax and just own it. Now you are free of the bonds of control and your psyche is just going a little nuts enjoying it.
I wouldn't worry too much so long as you keep up on your yearly checkups.
I just realized I didn't answer your question. This problem has been more the past couple of years. I would have to say a lot more the last 6 months. I've had a male friend who's 14 yrs younger begging me to go out with him. He's tried the past three nights. I'm going out dancing with friends tonight, and I know it will make it even harder. When I drink it gets worse. I think that happens to everyone. I love dancing, and it's a sexual thing. I have to be very careful not to drink too much. Part of me would love for my friend to come over right now and play for hours, but I can't. I want to give all of me to someone special.
I was married for about 11 years. The last year of our marriage, my ex got a computer and couldn't stay away from the porn sites and chatting with other women. He tried his best to hide it, but I was smarter than he was. He also started taking Hydroxycut to lose weight and ended up taking up to 20 a day. He was aggressive and would drink to calm down. During all this, he wanted me to have sex with other women and men and let him watch. I wouldn't do what he wanted, so I got beaten for my decision. He was smart enough to hide the bruises, and I was too embarrassed to tell anyone. This went on for a year. What hurt me so much was that I had always been the type wife who did want to have sex, but not as much as I do now. We never went more than a week without having sex. He ended up putting me in the hospital. That's what it took for me to get out. I was so afraid of him and hid everything. This couldn't be hidden. Even with me desiring sex and the need for orgasms, I would never do any of those things. I feel like I'm what any man would want, but men my age want a woman who's very young, I'm not sure why, but I think it's because they can't keep up with women their own age sexually, and the fact that most women my age are successful and educated. The men who always talk to me are a lot younger or a lot older. Why is it so messed up???
I do apologize if as the only male who posted in forum if I gave THAT impression.
Let me ask another question if I may? Are you having to sacrifice any other parts of your life to this desire? You do sound classy enough where I do believe you kept your dignity but is anything else in your life suffering because of your needs?
Let me ask another question if I may? Are you having to sacrifice any other parts of your life to this desire? You do sound classy enough where I do believe you kept your dignity but is anything else in your life suffering because of your needs?
I really appreciate all the comments. I've already had some men to contact me saying they can help me especially by using a webcam. I'm not into that. I'm an educated, classy, financially independent woman, and have always been told I'm a very attractive woman. I am so thankful to God for what I look like outside and what I am on the inside. My concerns are very sincere. I'm single and have all this going on. It's so hard being in my prime on top of what's going on. I have several men I could call to take care of me, and they would be here in a second. However, I don't want that. I want a man and a relationship filled with trust, respect, love, and the sexual desires. I just need and want to not have to think about or feel the need to have an orgasm. I know it's crazy, but it's what I want for now.
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JANDD gives great advice. That's exactly what I was thinking too. Do look it up and see if your symptoms fit. Remar
Look up PGAD (Persistant Genital Arousal Symdome) on the internet - you will probably find some helpful information.
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