Sexuality acceptance?

[Not_Hungry]

I didn't really know where to put this... But anyways. I'm a bisexual girl and my best friend is a girl. I was at her house and we were talking about marrige (only 14 haha) So I said "I hope my husband or wife has a cool apartment" and she just looked at me. Then she said "Wife!" and then I told her I was bisexual. She just looked at me and said "I don't wanna sleepover with you now, I feel like you're gonna rape me in my sleep!" I felt terrible. I feel like she doesnt understand OR trust me. I don't know what to do, it was so awkward

[Not_Hungry]

I'd be lucky to even get somebody to look at me xD I'm not sexually active, and don't see me being sexually active for a long while

[NOHARD]

Hi Hungry, I forgot to ask, I did ask if you had been with any females yet, but you have said your bisexual, so it should have said any female or males, so at 14 are your swinging both ways sexualy or have you not gone that far as of yet, its a question both me and Annie should have asked, that way it gives us an idea of your young life so far.
Because at 14 did have friends who were having sex, and that was back in the 60s, nothing changes.
Good Luck

[AnnieBrooke]

I don't think your friend is very smart.  Just because a person likes people of the same sex, it neither makes them a rapist nor makes them attracted (sexually) to every member of the same sex.  Maybe she was just surprised.  But why (if she is your best friend) she should suddenly be untrusting, I don't know.  Maybe it's because she's 14 too.  

Probably the best thing to do is to talk to her, say, you thought she knew, and tell her you didn't have an interest in her in that way so she shouldn't have worried.  If the two of you are really best friends, she should start to relax.

Nohard, I think it's perfectly plausible for a 14-year-old to know if she likes females, even if she hasn't 'done anything' yet.  The knowing comes before the doing, for gays and straights and everyone in between.

[NOHARD]

Hi Hungry, well you put yourself in a hole but at the same time you were straight, so you have either just mucked up a relatenship with your best friend, who will now tell every body, and you could now be labeled,gay.
So the thing now is just try and stay friends, but just wait and see.
But have you done anything yet with any other females?
Good Luck