why im always passioned!

[secretman]

i dont know if its a real problem or not but it disturbs me , im 20 years, and since i became adult im passioned almost all time, but im married 2 months ago, me and my wife decided to delay sex, not full sex but delaying putting **** in her body, so we just do it oral or rub them, but i think we did it like 5 times only in 2 months, and we both are virgin !! , but now i am all time passioned more than before, i even cant sleep now for 3 days bcs i feel pasison and my wife is always cold , she dont want it at all even to do it for me.

now i want to know, how can i calm???? is it bad to be always passioned?? im sick person or what? PLEASE HELP

[NOHARD]

Hi Secretman, till you get your sex life sorted out, then the manly way would be masturbating, this will help releave the pressure that you arer getting, or better still get your wife to masturbate you, this should lead up to love making.
If not you need to get kind of sex counciling, or see a marriage counciler and this means both of you, but you do really need to get you married sex life going for both of you, I just hope that you dont have some kind of religious problems with this answer.
Good Luck

[Arti Sharma, M.D.]

Hi there!
Sexual urge varies person to person. Some people may have it more while some may not have it at all. Nothing is abnormal as long as it is not interfering with your daily activities and not affecting your life style. For a successful intercourse both the partners should be involved completely both physically and emotionally. You should express your feelings to your wife. A good communication is very important. A good foreplay before the act will definitely be helpful.Inspite of this if the problem persists consult a local health care porovider.Do write to us again.
Best of luck and regards!