I guess we are all different, to me anal sex is like sticking your penis into a sewerage pipe, yes I have tried it but found the vagina to be better, my wife recently had a colonoscopy,(camera up the back passage} they recorded the process onto a VCR tape which she was allowed to take home, it showed them removing a pollop from her colon, my goodness there is no way I will ever stick my penis up there it was horrible.
First off you and your significant other must be comfortable in anal sex, If it is forced on ether of you, then either of you have the right to say "NO". But if that is no problem between either of you, then by all means, do experiment in this area of sexual pleasuring. .Start-out with lots of good lubricant, the more the better, And a good way to start is to caress the outer anus area with your fingers, so that your anus will gets use to being stimulated, then using only one finger,short nails please, You can gradually insert one of your finger into your rectum. the rectum has two rings of muscles called "Sphincter Muscles, that keeps the BM in and also other object out,such as your finger. so you will get some resistance to the penetration of your finger. But if you have used lots of lubricant and keep lots of gentle pressure upon these muscles,they will give way,and you can enter with your finger,and it can feel so good and become a regular partof your sexual pleasure. Start with one finger then when your rectum gets use to it,then you can move on to two or more fingers,then to larger objects. Ther are some m/f's who can take a whole fist,and it is called,"Fisting". But you will still need to play it safe as far as STD is concerned, so using a condom is still a good idea in the long run,if you are going on to oral or vaginal sex
In addition, make sure your partner is STD free...GET PAPERS or use condoms.
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As a gay man, i enjoy anal sex. If you are new to it, there are some things you should know. To be clean, you should take an enema at least an hour before intercourse. The first time you have anal sex, it will hurt. The main thing is to relax and enjoy it. If you want to email me to talk, you can reach me at ***@****
Robert
why would you do a **** hole? walls of colon are textured with ****. yuck.
SURE *** AND BUTT LOOK CUTE FROM THE OUTSIDE NO Q ABOUT THAT
The only advice I would give is if you wish to engage in anal sex, use a condom and then remove it before vaginal penetration. If not, you could spread bacteria from one to the other.
other than stds there is nothing to my knowledge that can be done if your partner is gonna get these problems they are gonna get them
some people are fine with anal sex. most are not. the risks are stds and even worse bowl problems. like incontinence and ripping of the sphinkter. it will get scared and later on in life it will be very hard to control your movements and also bleeding in the stool