I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and when we started dating we had both agreed that we could wait to have sex. So 2 years later, we started to have sex (we had oral sex {ie: fingering, eating out, hand jobs, dry humping} for quite a while) but after the first few times, it still hurts. I have talked to other ladies I know and all of them say that they hated it to begin with but later started to enjoy it. After about 5 or 6 times of having sex, I still absolutely despise it. It not only feels like my boyfriend's penis is just scraping my vaginal wall, but I also feel a lot of pressure in my lower stomach area (on the inside). I know everyone is going to tell me to go to the doctor's, but I figured I would see if anyone else was having the same problem before I made a doctor apt. So please, help me out.