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no orgasm from intercourse..HELP
I'm in a relationship (with a great guy)… we have been having sex all along, but I never orgasm with him. I dont even come close to having an orgasm during intercourse… He asks me what I want him to do and if it feels good, but I'm not even sure what I want him to do. As a result, I am rarely in the mood, and never initiate sex. I always see it as something I am doing for him/ to please him. How can I enjoy sex more? Is there something wrong? PLEASE HELP!
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Hi Lonely, OK can you orgasm by masturbating yourself?
If not and you would like to find how to and get much more info on this subject, then google dobson and ross, on there you will find all the answers you want and then more, Dr Betty Robson she takes life one orgasm at a time, runs life class's for women in the art of masturbating, and how to orgasm, you can download vids for a small price foe a day, week or month, if not you could contact her with a post.
Good Luck
If not and you would like to find how to and get much more info on this subject, then google dobson and ross, on there you will find all the answers you want and then more, Dr Betty Robson she takes life one orgasm at a time, runs life class's for women in the art of masturbating, and how to orgasm, you can download vids for a small price foe a day, week or month, if not you could contact her with a post.
Good Luck
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your husband will not know unless you tell him or you are examined by a doctor. So if you think, he will not accept you if you are not virgin ,do not tell him that you had sex 4 or 5 times.It appears to be an arranged marriage. Confession may create problems with your relationship.After long and good relationship, you may confess if you find him openhanded Best thing is to keep mum on this subject..
COMMUNITY LEADER
I really don't think it's a good idea to start off a marriage with a lie. Maybe your future husband will not even ask you if you're a virgin. Is this a cultural thing and that's why you're worried?
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(with few exceptions) The only way women reach orgasm is with clitoral stimulation.
The clit is the most sensitive, pleasurable part of the body (even more than any part of men’s bodies). Similar to the penis, when aroused, the clitoris fills with blood, becoming larger and more sensitive.
• The clit has 2 parts (all of which swell with pleasure)
The outer clit is the little ball-like tip/head located between the meeting point of the lips at the top of the vagina.
The other part is the inner clitoris. The inner clit is located inside the vagina on both sides of the vaginal opening. Think of it like the letter ‘V’ turned upside down. The outer clit is the point of the V, where the 2 legs meet. The inner clit extends from the tip & splits into the 2 legs inside the body with the vaginal ‘hole’ in the middle.
The inner clit is not as sensitive as the outer clit and nearly impossible to stimulate at an un-aroused state as it is limp.
The easiest/ best way to sexually satisfy a woman is with clitoral stimulation. Because the outer clit is the most sensitive and can be accessed at an un-aroused state, stimulating should be done first.
With light, slow rubbing/ caressing/ touching she will become aroused and the clit will swell.
It is best to continue this consistently, following her reactions until she reaches orgasm. Once sufficiently satisfied with foreplay, intercourse is more pleasurable for her. This is because she is wet enough and the inner and outer clit are erect therefore more sensitive and easier to stimulate.
When women orgasm from intercourse it is from inner clitoral stimulation from the penis moving in & out. However, a lot of women still have difficulty reaching orgasm- nevertheless it is very pleasurable and if the had orgasmed previously, they will be satisfied.
What a lot of women do not realize, is that with intercourse the orgasm does not simply happen to them… (nore does it simply happen to men).
Think of it like 2 people using each others bodies to get off. By rotating her hips, she can direct the penis to consistently stimulate the inner clit… making orgasm more likely.
Good luck and dont give up ;)