yes i'm afraid of the pain since we have tried it once before and i can't bare with the pain. teens? i don't think we are in the teens category since the both of us is already 25years old. anyway thanks for the advise.
Are you saying you are ready to give up your virginity to him and you're just afraid of the pain? If you are absolutely certain that this is the guy you want to give it up for, you need to practice safe sex. Condom's or some other form of birth control. I'm assuming you guys are young (in your teens?)...typically teen males aren't very good at controling their climax, and there is a good chance he'll ejaculate soon after going inside. Get some protection.
You should use a condom if your guy is rubbing his penis around your vagina even if it is not inserted into the vagina. You can get pregnant from what you are doing as it is, even without penetration, because your vaginal secretions are designed to help his secretions move up into your uterus. Please use protection or you might well find yourself pregnant even just doing what you are doing.
no we don't plan to get pregnant.. we wanna use condom but the problem is, its hard to put it in because i'm still a virgin.. any advice on that?
how long will it be pain after the penetration? will it swollen?
Unless, of course, you WANT to get pregnant.
It will not affect your uterus. Your vagina might be giving you pain because it gets engorged and does not release the engorged blood (unless, of course, you orgasm. Then the engorged blood flows out of the area.)
As for the putting it in, if you try a lubricated condom, I would think it might help. Please don't tell me you're trying this putting the penis in the vagina and rubbing the penis around the vagina without protection, or I will just go cry. :)