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rubbing penis around vagina

Hey there, there's certain things bothering me and I need help.

My boyfriend and I regularly make out..but the problem is we never had a real sex. For the past 5years he will only rub his penis around my vagina and it will both of us will get turn on. Sometimes when we get really rough I will be in pain inside and outside around my vagina. I'm wondering will it affect my uterus?

We tried to have real sex by putting in his penis into my vagina but its hard because i can't bare with the pain and I need advice on that.
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yes i'm afraid of the pain since we have tried it once before and i can't bare with the pain. teens? i don't think we are in the teens category since the both of us is already 25years old. anyway thanks for the advise.
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Are you saying you are ready to give up your virginity to him and you're just afraid of the pain? If you are absolutely certain that this is the guy you want to give it up for, you need to practice safe sex. Condom's or some other form of birth control. I'm assuming you guys are young (in your teens?)...typically teen males aren't very good at controling their climax, and there is a good chance he'll ejaculate soon after going inside. Get some protection.
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ok thank you
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134578 tn?1693250592
You should  use a condom if  your guy is rubbing his penis around your vagina even if it is not inserted into the vagina.  You can get pregnant from what you are doing as it is, even without penetration, because your vaginal secretions are designed to help his secretions move up into your uterus.  Please use protection or you might well find yourself pregnant even just doing what you are doing.

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no we don't plan to get pregnant.. we wanna use condom but the problem is, its hard to put it in because i'm still a virgin.. any advice on that?

how long will it be pain after the penetration? will it swollen?
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134578 tn?1693250592
Unless, of course, you WANT to get pregnant.  
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134578 tn?1693250592
It will not affect your uterus.  Your vagina might be giving you pain because it gets engorged and does not release the engorged blood (unless, of course, you orgasm.  Then the engorged blood flows out of the area.)

As for the putting it in, if you try a lubricated condom, I would think it might help.  Please don't tell me you're trying this putting the penis in the vagina and rubbing the penis around the vagina without protection, or I will just go cry.   :)
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